Should I believe in him?

[Ayreen]

I met a guy online , and we started talking , we talked on video call straight away after few days texting. The first video call we had he asked to see my bum (without clothes on)

I am not comfortable but He told me it’s easy to build relationship that we can get more close if we share nudes and also he telling me that i am not so religious woman because i still wear jeans and make up (i am a muslim girl, which my means wearing make up and jeans is forbidden).

He share lots of his nudes with his face on to convince me that he is not fooling around and he told me if he wanted to fool around he will not share his nudes with face on and he said to me he never share it with anyone.

He said he love me , want to have marriage life to build a family. He is also a muslim man but reside in Europe.

[Nxtawm]

Run like the wind, everything about him is saying he’s a red flag lol. Biggest flag is him asking to see your ass on the first video call and that’s after only a few days of knowing each other. Screams nothing but horny guy who wants nudes. He definitely thinks you’re gullible if he’s lying to you that it’s easier to build a relationship and get close if you send nudes. That’s something personal you do only when you’re already close and have trust in each other, it doesn’t work the other way around. Just because he sent you nudes with his face in it doesn’t prove anything, in my opinion it proves the opposite of what you said. Think about it, he’s willing to send such a pic to someone after a few days, does he seem like he rlly values it and would only share such nudes with only special people? Seems more like he could care less if a random girl saw his dick. He’s just trying to use that to leverage guilt over you and convince you to send such pics back. Someone who rlly sees a future such as marriage with you would actually respect you enough to not ask to see your bare ass on the first video call. They would not want to risk fucking up their chances with you by asking such risky horny questions. Always be very careful sending explicit pics online, make sure it’s someone you trust, something you won’t regret, and be aware there’s always a little bit of a chance other people might see the pic you send no matter how much you think you can trust them.

[coxoabean]

Sounds like he may be gaslighting you in a way, when he is telling you that if he were wanting to fool around he wouldn't be sharing his face and nudes. Just because he is sharing his face and nudes, doesn't mean that he isn't fooling around. Your first FaceTime and he's asking to see nudes. I would stop talking to him. He is lying. You DO NOT need nudes to build trust or a good relationship. Not true. Sure, after a while of talking, that may be different. Talking, and actually getting to know the person for them, and see their personality is what is good. That is what will help build a good relationship. He sounds like a h*rny guy who just wants pics. Be careful with people, because they will lie and tell you what you want to hear to get the pics or whatever they want, then they'll ditch you right after.

[Desi_Butcher]

Wow! It's just surprising at times what men do just to get themselves satisfied.
Salaam, Ayreen.
Don't believe this guy. He's only using you for his sexual satisfaction. A guy who would be serious for marriage would make efforts to meet you first and know your family. Thereafter, he'd get into these things.
You should not show yourself dear. And don't trust him.

[Billlewis]

So, you're trying to decide if you should show him your bare butt?

[Ayreen]

no, i want to know is true you can have to share nudes to build trusts to that extent

[strateguy632]

it is not true. so do not worry about that

[strateguy632]

he asked to see you like that, that is a red flag. dump the low life. i agree with @coxoabean here

[EmmaMary]

@Ayreen

I certainly wouldn't believe in this weird, creepy pervert... Massive Red Flag.

[SoJust]

Absolutely do not trust and believe that no person on social media that you have not met face to face can marry you, and also, the reason why they want such naked pictures is because they want to have sexual intercourse with you, be careful.

[eagle1951]

sounds like a bunch of bull shet to me, he just wants to see you naked

[RedInnocent69]

Um, for a Muslim guy? He’s playing you. Leave.

[Anonymous]

No way That’s disrespect