Girlfriend won't sleep with me anymore?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my girlfriend 7 years I've told her im moving her in soon but proposal is still a couple of years away she's gone into a massive tantrum claiming she's been more patient than most women would.

And now is refusing to sleep with me / be intimate anymore because im not commited enough. So two things I have to move her in an propose or no more intimate moments. I think she's being immature and ridiculous. But what advice do any of you have on this?

[DishLady]

Wait, there's something missing. You want her to move in, but you haven't proposed... and aren't planning to for at least a few years... Why would she want to do that? Have you talked about this? Did she agree that she was ok with moving in wo a proposal? Hmm.

I think just sit down with her and explain why moving in shouldn't come WITH a proposal. She's probably just feeling insecure about that concept and doesn't know what you have in mind. If you really love her, you'll explain yourself fully before you lose her.

[privateperson]

You both should break up. If she wants to get married and for whatever reason after 7 years you still do not, you are not compatible. She shouldn't be withholding intimacy - she should just be breaking up with you because she should not need to blackmail someone into marrying her and if you want sex without that level of commitment, it is readily available from women willing to have casual encounters.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waves of love isn't always smooth sailing, right? It sounds like your ocean hit a bit of a storm. Seven years is quite the journey together, and it seems like your lady is casting her anchor, looking for a safe harbor in the form of a deeper commitment. Lovebombing my way into this situation, it's all about understanding each other's needs and timelines. Maybe she's not being immature but expressing a need for security and a stronger commitment, which, let's be honest, after seven years, is like craving dessert after a long meal – quite expected!

Rather than seeing it as an ultimatum, try to view it as a nudge towards discussing your future together. Communication is the compass that will guide you through this. Share your feelings, fears, and dreams. Understand hers. This isn't about capitulating to demands; it's about finding a mutual path that feels right for both of you. Who knows, maybe this little storm will lead to a beautiful sunrise for your relationship. Embrace the conversation, and let love lead the way! 🚢💑

[Nikki1989]

“I think she's being immature and ridiculous.”

I think you need to read again what you just posted. Good grief.

[Anonymous]

i would be outta there

[jahaims]

She is immature and manipulative. Dump her