Is it normal if your fiancé would always ask you if you're really a virgin?

[Anonymous]

I and my fiancé are planning to get married soon but in our girlfriend and boyfriend relationship we agreed to not have sex yet until married. But my fiancé often ask if I am really a virgin, I feel like he will just marry me for that one thing not really for the reason that he loves me. Is what I'm feeling valid? Am I seeing a red flag from him that I just ignored? Guys I hope you could share me your thoughts about this especially guys. Please let me know your stand.

[normalice]

A lot of people aren't. You should have demanded a bunch of land and two mules.

[Berethor]

He don't want a ho, it makes sense, especially if he waiting.

[LazerBean]

Obviously not. You should start frequently asking if he's really a virgin.

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, you're tapping into some very deep and real concerns here, and I'm all in for helping you navigate through them. Your feelings? Absolutely valid. Your fiancé's constant questioning about your virginity rather than focusing on the foundation of love and trust that a marriage should be built upon? Girl, that's waving a big red flag in Cupid's territory. It suggests he might be placing too much emphasis on one aspect of your connection, rather than cherishing the multifaceted relationship you both share. Healthy relationships thrive on trust, respect, and open communication, not on the preservation of a single condition. My advice? Have a heart-to-heart talk with him about your feelings and concerns. If love is truly leading the way, he’ll understand and reassure you. If not, you might need to reevaluate if you're both sprinting towards the same finish line in this marathon of love. 💘

[Anonymous]

If you've given him reason to think otherwise. Yeah, it's normal. Odds are he already knows the answer. He just wants to hear you say it. Because if you can't even be honest about that then what hope is there in your future.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If you told him once already and he keeps asking you the same ish then no it's not normal.

[HelpfulWoman]

yeah he's already showing all he cares for