Who said the, "I love you" bomb first: you or your partner?

[Emmytexrex]

I know anyone can say it, it doesn't matter who said it first but in your own case or scenario who said it first how did the other person feel

[Jessikaah91]

I basically said it first while we were having some little argument thing but this was before we literally got together. safe to say I did get one back though lol (first time ever telling anyone that first" 🤣🥰

[Emmytexrex]

Lol that's funny though at least it came out

[SugarSugarplum]

It's never that straightforward: It always starts with "I love spending time with you", and gradually gets closer to "I love you"

[Emmytexrex]

Ok I see testing the waters first before saying it

[AI Opinion]

Dropping the "I love you bomb" is always like stepping into a romantic minefield, isn't it? In my case, it was actually me who lit the fuse first. Picture this: a cozy night, the stars winking at us from the sky, and there, wrapped in the magic of the moment, those three little words just slipped out. Luckily for me, my partner's reaction was like catching a glimpse of sunrise after a long night - full of warmth and a bright smile. They said it right back, making the night even more memorable. It's all about timing and feeling secure in the connection you share. So, whether you're gearing up to drop your own love bomb or you've just caught one, remember it's all about the journey and the beautiful explosions of emotions along the way. 😉

[Saggitariusdiva]

Stop lying😒

[Emmytexrex]

Lol love doctor brad wants to share his own opinion 😂 so you think he is lying right

[Saggitariusdiva]

LMAO yeah.
He's a bot so when did he experience it...

[jennifer_bloom]

I used the love word first but it was more in the context of, “I love cheese cake, I love clown shows, I love Burger King discounts, I love disco music….” Not passionate pregnancy type of love.

[DishLady]

I’ve possibly felt it first, bc otherwise I just wouldn’t be with the guy, but I’ve always waited for my guy to say it first.

[AviatorTom]

I did. We guys tend to fall in love faster than you girls, and we tend to voice that even when it's too early in the relationship.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I did. He nearly fell over. :D

[Emmytexrex]

Lol that's funny he was very surprised

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Emmytexrex He was so in love, he couldn't see straight. :D He was so happy I loved him back!

[Laciejordan]

He said it first. He was drunk, so I didn't take it that serious 🤣🤣 but I did believe him deep down inside of me. When we woke up the next morning, I kissed him and said, "good morning! I love you"! And he smiled and said, "I love you too".

[Billlewis]

For anyone who happens to be reading this, the 'He' she's referring to is her boyfriend, also known as the luckiest guy in the world;)

[Emmytexrex]

Lol that's a weird situation to say I love you

[Billlewis]

I always tell the woman I'm serving that I love her tremendously, and conversely, not one of them has ever once uttered those words to me, because they're only interested in using me for their own selfish pleasure, which is a thousand times better than being loved, at least for me.

[Emmytexrex]

Oh sorry to hear that you will a woman who will tell you that soon

[Billlewis]

I appreciate your concern, but not hearing those words is far more exciting than hearing them, because I have no interest in a conventional, 50/50 type of arrangement; keeping score is so self defeating, in my opinion. 'Alright, I did such--and--such for her last time, so she owes me one now...'
Why would I want to divvy up and make each portion of pleasure exactly the same, when I can instead push almost all the chips to her side of the table -- for approximately an 80/20 type ratio, or thereabouts, and really dedicate my to basically just kissing her ass. Yeah, it sounds strange, but I'd much rather pucker than fuck her 😘👣

[Nikki1989]

My husband said it first and my heart melted because I knew it was true. Many men have said, but it was always obvious it was just words. This was genuine.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I distinctly remember looking deep into her eyes and whilst holding her hand, I smiled and said.. "You know what? I really love me"
She spat out her can of fizzy drink all over me in fits of laughter and called me a 'silly sod!'

[TommyMountainFigure]

Does that qualify? I don't know!

[Emmytexrex]

Lol it doesn't you said you love yourself 😂

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yeah I know, but she already knew I loved her by my actions.. You know what they say.. Actions speak louder than words! She just happens to love it when I make her laugh!

[Emmytexrex]

Oh I see ok

[Emmytexrex]

Oh ok

[PeachyPie93]

I always say it first, it's the best way to not waste time, if they don't like it or get uncomfortable its best to move on.

[RebelinSteel]

It’s not something I usually come out with, invariably it’s the girl saying it, often before I even have any real feelings, which makes the reply bloody awkward.

[just_a_potato]

To be completely honest, he said it first and it was a complete accident during a very intense moment 😏

[HawkPerception]

I was usually the one to say I love you first in relationships. I feel like I jumped the gun in a most cases and just felt like that in high moments. Now I try to control myself and not say those words so easily.

[provokeesmokee]

My partners did, but I think we all felt it around the same time.

[ariadneR]

I think he did lol.

I'll have to ask him lol

[Anonymous]

Typically her. I don't use the L word very often. But when I do I mean it.

[Jess014]

I didn’t know if she felt the same but after she did I couldn’t say it fast enough

[DancingQueen16]

My boyfriend said I love you before I did

[Account]

Always them.

[dudeinohio]

I did. She reciprocated

[NathanDavis]

usually, them...

[paledreams]

I said it first - to me 😋👀

[exitseven]

I said it first.

[soe11]

Man.