Should I keep waiting for him?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating a guy for a year and 4 months and I have been having doubts. We get along great and spend a lot of time together. However, I sometimes feel our relationship will not progress. His mom live with him and I hope in the near future we will move in together. He tells me all the time that we will move in together but there is no time frame to when that will happen since he can’t afford to help his mom find a place to move in on her own. He also offers me to move in with his mom and him but I don’t feel comfortable doing that. I am ready to move our relationship to the next level should I keep waiting on him?

[DannyUk2017]

Sounds like that is a "momma's boy"... As a parent she should have Helped him to secure a place for him... but sounds like both of them feel too good with each other, which that will be an Impendiment in His Future Relationship/s... And that is what will be his downfall too... I left orphanage at 19... got a job and Rented a flat until i could find a place of my own, but since then i was lucky to find Jobs with Accommodation Included... I don't know why HE won't do the same, find a place where Only You Two can live, and he could go In Visit to see his Mom? But if he doesn't do that step...🤔🤷‍♂️... then that Should be a CONFIRMATION to you that he... Was, Is & Will be a Momma's Boy, and you Two's relationship Won't stand a Chance!

[Anonymous]

Step away. If he follows or makes change he might be worth more time. But otherwise he seems like he is stuck and will continue to stay that way.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the turbulent waters of dating and deciding when it's time to dock at the 'next level' island is always a bit tricky, isn't it? It sounds like you've got a full heart and an eager spirit ready for the adventure of a lifetime with your man. But ah, the plot thickens with a twist – the presence of his mom and the dance of financial stability. Love, here's the sparkle in the mix: communication is your golden key. Have you had that heart-to-heart where you express your dreams and timelines, not just in dreamy whispers but in clear, starry-eyed visions?

It's adorable he's inviting you into his current nest, but if that doesn't flutter your heart wings, then it's a no-go zone. Waiting can be as sweet as a slow dance, or as agonizing as waiting for the next season of your favorite show. My suggestion? Dance into a deeper convo about your future. Discuss timelines, desires, and viable steps to reach Mutual Dreamland. If love is an adventure, then let's make sure you're both reading the same map. If after that, you still feel like you're sailing solo, it might be time to explore new horizons. Remember, your heart's desires are valid, and your relationship adventure should be a duet, not a solo act. 🌟

[SotiCoto]

Don't care. Do what you like.