Do you care about who your partner follows on social media?

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HighValue · Accepted Answer

Mostly, social media harms relationships and people use it to cheat. At first emotional cheating, then physical cheating. So many women cheat and encourage that behavior in other women, that now behavior that IS cheating is considered normal by many women because the immorality is so widespread. Anyone in a relationship that has posted provocative/revealing pictures online, or is having intimate/sexual conversations with others IS cheating. If they are adding NEW opposite gender friends, they are seeing what their potential options are and are disloyal. The most common excuse is them calling someone "controlling" if they are against the disloyal cheating behavior.

RebelinSteel · Accepted Answer

When I was dating, no it never really mattered, there is a level of trust in a relationship, if that cannot be a thing, then there is no relationship. Apart from that my social media previous to this place was the odd car forum and archery forum. Never really done social media and ditto with girls I’ve dated.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Not really. Some will be common people and some will be based on our individual interests.

AviatorTom · Answer

Not really. She is her own person and can follow whoever she wants, just like I can.

sawno · Answer

No, I am highly trusting when in a healthy relationship. That changes if my partner would show suspicious behavior like not being honest about what they are doing, not showing up to things we agreed to do without letting me know in advance yet i see them hang out with someone online, etc.

paledreams · Answer

Like myself, I'm barely on social media anymore, out of a number of reasons, fewer reasons not because of issues. More so, boredom by social media, and there's enough medias.
I find other things for my time, so I'd likely have a woman who minimally used it anyhow yet neither against social media - not opponents

IslaTheWitch · Answer

no... my partner is a separate person, and I'm far from controlling him

GeminiDiamond · Answer

Nope. If he's faithful at the end of the day, who cares. You also can't control guys or cage them. I've found it just pissed them off

NathanDavis · Answer

nope, never really did... but, none of them were big on social media either

HawkPerception · Answer

Never cared to check that kind of stuff, but I'd HOPE they wouldn't be following feminazis, girls that say you're better off without men, body positivity crap, or LGBT nonsense.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. And he doesn’t care who I follow. We trust each other.

soe11 · Answer

All depending on what kind of social media. Normally I do trust on my girlfriend. If someone treats his partner with trust, love, honesty and dignity, no need to worry about it.

Mwolf · Answer

No, unless he is always messaging her and only liking her stuff and not mine at least some of the time.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I won't  I do care how well he treats me tho so if who he follows takes away from that then we will have problems

dustybiker2 · Answer

None of my people like social media. Outside if my taekwondo studio I don't know anyone who is into it.

just_a_potato · Answer

Nah. He can follow whoever he wants, as long as it isn't his exes. Because why would anyone follow their ex.

DrPepper12 · Answer

I dont even know who she follows and dont care. she's a big girl.

Nikki1989 · Answer

We don't have any social media accounts.

alara-chan · Answer

Yes ofcourse. Even 70 yo women are can be my enemy! He has a 70 yo pilates teacher and about 50 70 yo household cleaner. 🙃 big brother watching u babe...

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, if he follow to many girls it's suspicious (I don't mind much celebrity but random normal women I don't like it). I would go through his phone to see if he's flirting with them.

thegreenyogi · Answer

I don't have a partner but if I did I wouldn't really care.

Likes2drive · Answer

It shouldn’t matter if you trust each other

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

if I had a partner, it would absolutely bother me if he Followed a lot of women

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Not at all. I would only care about the interactions. That’s what really matters

GamesNCake90 · Answer

No. But my partner and I follow certain people on social media just to be trolls, so if I saw him following same walnut like Andrew Tate, I wouldn't care.

Anonymous · Answer

I doubt users here really don't care especially if specific names are brought up

RARETRAMP · Answer

no, It's none of my business what someone else follows!!!

jahaims · Answer

Both of us only use social media to keep up with friends and family

foxsquirrell · Answer

Yes. Would not be too happy if she followed her ex for instance.

ButtNakedMan · Answer

Nope! I'm the guy you fear she follows! And I'm gone before you get home.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as she don’t follow feminists, leftists, male model or people who post sexualized content of men, I don’t care.

SamanthaSamantha99 · Answer

It depends on the accounts my partner follows and whether I find it disrespectful

robocop666 · Answer

I doubt a woman would like her man following too many models

Jessikaah91 · Answer

For the most part no.

avery58 · Answer

Yeah I most definitely would

Radiate143 · Answer

Yep! It can be a dealbreaker

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Better with no guys at all!

SoJust · Answer

No I don't care

Sasquach · Answer

No, because I know I'm the best option she has

standardguy · Answer

No. Virtual friendship does not count.

admles · Answer

No, but then I'm not insecure.

electromagnetic · Answer

Not really.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nope.

Tim2nice · Answer

Not at all

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope, I trust her.

Chelsdope0 · Answer

Yes, I do.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

ehatsham_hussain · Answer

No , never

In_Trance · Answer

Not at all

eagle1951 · Answer

some yes

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