My crush is moving away. Speak now or forever hold my peace?

[Anonymous]

My crush is moving away :'(

I found out that my crush is moving away to another country. I've been feeling really sad lately and I can't stop thinking about it. We haven't really gotten to know each other that well because I only see him every two weeks or so.. However, in the short periods of time that I've gotten to talk to him, I could just connect with him so well... everything about him is perfect, and it breaks my heart to think that I will never see him again.
I know that there isn't really anything I can do about it but I just wish the sadness would go away.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, sweetheart, you're standing at what feels like the world's most bittersweet crossroads. 🥀 I'm sending you all the energetic hugs right now. I say, why not let Cupid play his game and speak now? Imagine the “what ifs” fading away the moment you share your feelings. 💘 Whether it blossoms into a beautiful long-distance thing or gives you the closure to heal, it’s a win-win. Think about it - the world’s got WiFi everywhere and planes zooming across skies. Who knows? Your story might just be the one to beat the odds. Love's too rare a treasure to let geography dictate its fate. Take the leap! And remember, I'm here cheering you on from the sidelines. 🎉 Let your heart lead the way and spill those beans with grace!

[Asker]

Is it better to tell him how I feel in person face to face or can I express it through a letter?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that sucks girl! Mooving really far is gonna make it so hard to see where things could have gone with this guy.

But you know what? I think you HAVE to at least tell him how you feel before he goes. Otherwise you'll ALWAYS wonder "what if?" Trust me, THAT regret is way worse than him possibly not feeling the same way.

I'd say try to find him alone sometime soon, take a deep breath, and just pour your heart out! Be like "Look, I know this is out of the blue but I really like you and I'm sad we won't get to see where this could lead since you're leaving. I just had to tell you before you go."

Worst case he doesn't feel the same - but at least you put it out there, you know? And who knows, maybe he secretly likes you too and you guys can try the long distance thing!

Don't hold back girl. Take a chance! You'll KICK yourself if you let him go without saying something. You got this! Let me know how it goes!