How many of you have never fought with your partner?

[dudeinohio]

2.5 years together and we've never had a fight... ie aggressive discussion.

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6 mo

I don't mean a fight in thr physical sense. I mean an argument where voices are raised.

[NathanDavis]

fighting, never did that in any of my relationships

most of the times it was discussion in disagreement, very rare turned into arguments

but never aggressive arguments or discussion... at least in my case, it never mattered how upset they were (or moody) I was always able to get close to them personally and hold their hands, or embrace them and ask them to calm down and talk to me (yes it worked... it's all in the tone and the genuine vibe)

and they would give me that look, that very clearly one indicating they would cut my head off with one snap, but they just didn't... lmao

worth to note, that the only one ex which i had these arguments was the one who was a bit too jealous, but she knew this jealousy was a bit unreasonable, and she actually did her best to control those emotions rather than taking them to more explosive levels, lol... so that sure helped a lot, perhaps made all the difference

[NathanDavis]

edit/update*

I've definitely never raised my voice, no shouting, no screaming...

[sirderpsalot123]

I guess it depends on what you mean by "fight", we've never gotten into a screaming match or anything.

I think conflict and conflict resolution are part of most relationships. Even outside of romantic ones. I don't understand how an argument could never come up at any point, unless one person always lets the other lead. Then, anything that would’ve been a disagreement or an argument stops because the other persons always drops it or just goes along with it. Which I don't think is healthy.

[Bethany22]

My my longest boyfriend and I never fought. I think it was a combination of good personality compatibility along with not really being too insecure in the relationship. I think because we complimented each other's personalities so well, we knew exactly how to avoid getting on each other's nerves. Of course I cared about him leaving me, but he never did things that actually made me emotional enough to start testing him with fighting. I never had to get angry at him for not knowing better what my expectations were, because I could see that he always made an effort. So I told myself, yes, there are other pretty girls around, but apart from talking to them, he never forgets what's important to me. So I never got angry at him for stupid stuff like that.

[Nikki1989]

We have never had a fight in 11 years of being together. 10 years married this August.

[AI Opinion]

Sliding into this conversation like a smooth operator, because honestly, who can resist sharing about love without a little fight story? Kudos to you for making it 2.5 years without an aggressive discussion. That's like seeing a unicorn in the wild! But remember, a little disagreement here and there doesn't have to be a love story villain. It's all about how you communicate and solve those puzzles together. Keep up the good work, and if a spat ever does come your way, think of it as a chance to strengthen your bond even more. Just remember, the key is not about never fighting; it's about fighting right and making up even better! 😉

[DishLady]

The one partner I enjoyed being with we basically never had an argument. Discussions were easy and logical. If there was a difference of opinion we’d just hear one another out. I’m not a fan of aggression in a relationship. The person you come home to has to be your haven and strength, not just another dbag to argue with.

[dudeinohio]

Good for you!

[DishLady]

Thanks. It’s rare, though.

[dudeinohio]

Yeah

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't think I've ever fought either directly or indirectly with my Jewish boyfriend but he does sometimes show disapproval or dislike for things. Like he mocked me for my underdeveloped housekeeping skills and other times he mocked me for eating junk food. He wasn't trying to make me feel bad, he was encouraging me to upgrade my abilities. I say I don't eat junk food cause I consider a fast food burger once every two months to be equal to no junk food.

[Apple1996]

It would feel unhealthy and wrong to never fight with my partner or anyone close to me (friends/family) lol

[IslaTheWitch]

it's not about you, ofc, but some years ago people I knew as a perfect couple, always agreeing and never fighting, decided to divorce... it was her idea... and asked why, they never had a disagreement... she said: "he wouldn't listen to me anyway..."

it made me very aware of my own ways of avoiding disagreements... sometimes not very healthy... I don't do it anymore...

[dudeinohio]

We listen to each other and communicate well. Good communication is key.

[EmmaMary]

@dudeinohio

We have never had a fight (in the true sense of the word) in the twelve years we've been together... Six years married this coming Nov.10th.

However like all couples, we have had our disagreements and sometimes heated discussions, but have never, ever physically attacked each other.

[dudeinohio]

I meant a loud argument. Nothing physical. We don't even envision a loud argument.

[PeachyPie93]

I think that is a good thing. You must be really compatible.

[dudeinohio]

Thanks! Yes. We are.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Once. One fight and over a year in.