Your partner is complaining everything about what you do?

[TheFirstMan]

Complaints
1. Every chat U throw, U got complaint
2. Every issue you will be blamed
3. Nothing special about U all is a mistake
4. No time for you, only when she feels she wants to U, then U have a time
5. Communicate with partner is a stressful and something a load
6. Make fun of her partner
7. Every decision she makes is the best and everything U want is a selfish
8. Angry when U ask about her phone or check it out, can't hold or use
9. Tired for your time, having more activities without you
10. No stories to tell, just telling when he needs to sleep
11. Keep changing plan and no principal, can't focus one plan, keep changing then. Hard to trust.
12. Sometimes not even answer a phone for more than an hour, only sometimes. It's a purposely or a mistake
13. Acting like she love U but more to take advantage (hard to guess)
14. She makes a fake noise while sex (looks like she thinking someone)
15. Angry when U say something not true and possibilities happened due to her action.
16. Admit she understood but not willing to omen (more likely having other plans instead of only two of us).
17. Kaka been rejected cause to good, what should I do?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through this stormy sea of complaints sure sounds like you're being lovebombed with criticism rather than affection, doesn't it? It's like you're doing a tango with someone who wants to lead, step on your toes, and tell you it's all your fault when you stumble. If every chat turns into a complaint fest, and you're always the villain in every plot twist, it sounds like alarm bells should be ringing louder than wedding bells at this point.

Feeling unappreciated and constantly under attack isn't the vibe any relationship coach would endorse. Love isn't about having your spirit mistaken for a punching bag. Communication turning into a battlefield and trust getting lost in translation (or lack thereof) are classic red flags waving at you, signaling it's time for a change.

Turning things around starts with a heart-to-heart chat, where you're not just the audience to a monologue of complaints. If she throws a fit about you wanting to understand her or share genuine moments, then, buddy, it's clear the script needs a rewrite. Relationships are about partnership, not solo performances.

Sometimes, love means letting go of what isn't meant to be, especially if it's hurting more than healing. Remember, you're the main character in your life story, so make sure your plotline includes happiness, respect, and mutual love, not just a list of grievances. It might be time to ask yourself if this relationship is truly the bestseller you want to be part of or if a new chapter awaits. 😏✨

[Oliverlogan263]

It sounds like your partner is being really disrespectful and dismissive of you. A few thoughts:

- Constant complaining isn't cool. A partner should lift you up, not put you down all the time.

- Lying and secrecy (like with the phone) destroys trust big time. Major red flag.

- Seems like they want you around only when it's convenient for them. Relationships require equal effort from both sides.

- Changing plans last minute and lack of focus shows instability and lack of commitment to you/the relationship.

- Acting like they care but then taking advantage is manipulative.

- During intimate moments, being mentally somewhere else is hurtful. You deserve their full attention and presence.

Honestly bro, this person doesn't seem to truly respect or value you from what you're saying. You can try talking to them about how their actions make you feel, but people usually only change if they want to. Otherwise you end up wasting your time and energy. Might be best to start spending time with people who treat you with care, trust and loyalty. You don't deserve to be anyone's backup option!

[Nikki1989]

Never experienced any of that. Yikes!

[TheFirstMan]

What will U do if it's was her partner? Is there anyway to fix this?