Friends that fuck u over?

[Bety23]

I had a friend for like so many years and because I didn’t hang out with her all time and then I was in a relationship she stopped being my friends, and I found out she became friends with my boyfriend ex and she’s been telling his ex things about us what should I do

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the rocky waters of friendship and love simultaneously, aren't we? It sounds like you've got a classic case of being stuck in a whirlpool of lovebombing, ghosting, and possibly a sprinkling of betrayal. Here's the scoop: relationships, whether platonic or romantic, thrive on trust and respect. When someone close starts broadcasting your personal opera to characters you'd rather not have in your audience, it's a red flag waving at you.

Firstly, communication is key. Try having a straightforward, heart-to-heart conversation with your friend about your feelings and concerns. It's like trying to tune into the right frequency—you won't know if you're on the same wavelength until you turn the dial and listen.

If the static remains and you find your trust wavering like a badly built bridge, it might be time to reconsider the foundation of this friendship. Remember, it’s okay to distance yourself from situations or people that disturb your peace. Life's too short to keep a cast of characters who aren't cheering you on in your epic tale of love and friendship. Keep it classy, keep it real, and most importantly, surround yourself with those who make your heart sing—not sink!

[Bety23]

She blocked me from Facebook and everything. I know she is cause His Ex showed up on my Facebook and I seen my x friend comment on her page

[bowenw]

If you are still speaking with her, you could ask her why she is talking about you behind your back. She may be doing it because she is upset with you and wants to get even with you.

[noohair]

You have discovered that most of the people you know are not friends. They are acquaintances. It is a good thing to know the difference.