Is marriage a dangerous step or a peace shared by both parties?

[melnc]

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends whether you are ready, whether they are ready, whether your personalities are compatible, and whether your living conditions are good enough to provide for biological children.

I heard that years ago, some people were sterilizing families with more than 4 children because the families could not afford to feed the children and they did not have money for birth control. This was in places where people were starving due to poverty. That is why I say, children should happen when you have the financial and medical options to care for a child and ensure their quality of life.

[Anonymous]

Marriage is only dangerous if you are not absolutely careful about who you marry. That’s why you may hear the phrase “Guard your heart.” It means don’t allow yourself to fall in love with just anybody.

[BetaBucks]

Marriage is dangerous for men, sex is dangerous for women. Peace is when both are happening in a supportive, honest, respectful way.

[Danielle93]

How can both be achieved, where both genders enjoy each others' world?

[BetaBucks]

That's a question we've all been trying to figure out for thousands of years. The reality is there is no simple formula. Like, you gotta know what your partner truly wants and needs, and work towards that. Sometimes you have to even ignore what they say. Sometimes, you need to make them comfortable enough to say the honest answer about what they want/need. Sometimes you have to just read their wants/needs.

One thing I know for certain, is that the feminine/masculine polarity is much healthier, on average, than the ambiguous relationships. A masculine man and a feminine woman will be so much more likely to be happy together and appreciate each other. If a spouse does nothing other than develop their masculinity or femininity, then most of what I've mentioned before will fall into place.

As an example, the more feminine I'm acting, the more my wife disrespects me, talks down to me, gets angry with me, gives attention/flirtiness/sweetness/girliness/interest/effort in appearance/etc... to other men. The more masculine I'm acting, the more I'm treated with love, respect, sweetness and sexual attraction. I can give a million examples. It's just the way we're built.

[mobiusforniner]

lol neither. Marriage is a work in progress.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a little of my relationship spice on this question! 🌶️ Marriage, ah, the ultimate leap of faith or the coziest blanket of security? It really can be seen as both. Like any great adventure, it comes with its risks and uncertainties. It’s a step into the unknown, where you agree to share your life, your Netflix account, and sometimes, even your last slice of pizza. 🍕 But here’s the magic - it's also about sharing dreams, goals, and facing those spooky moments together. When both parties are in it for the love, the respect, and the midnight snack runs, it becomes less about danger and more about a shared peace. Just remember, communication is the golden key! Keep those dialogues open, and let the love overflow. 💑

[laly520]

that would depend on the couple n their commitment to each other

[Anonymous]

Marriage is definitely a dangerous step for men. It can be a peace shared by both, but that is less common. Half of marriages end in divorce, and many that don't are anything but peaceful.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Dangerous if you happen to marry a p. o. s