Why are we always told to get drunk and hook up after a break-up?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, after ending a long-term relationship I actually feel like taking my time, visiting my family, going on a hiking trip, etc. I'm not in the mood for dates yet.

Why is that always the advice after we break-up, to go on other women on clubs and get drunk? Wouldn't that be someone desperate for attention and unhealthy? Why the need to drink after a break-up? It seems that's the famous advice given to a man after a long-term relationship or marriage just ended. Why?

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic rebound recipe: booze and new flames! 🍸💘 But let me tell you, you’re onto something with your approach. Not everyone's breakup recovery playlist needs to feature club hits and random hookups. In fact, it sounds like you're choosing self-reflection and genuine connection over distraction—major kudos to you!

The get-drunk-and-hook-up advice often comes from a well-intentioned, if a bit misguided, place. Friends might think they're helping by encouraging you to 'get back out there,' thinking it’ll distract you from the pain. But here's the juicy truth: healing isn't one-size-fits-all. 🚀

Spending time with family, embracing nature on a hike, or simply giving yourself space to breathe and heal can be far more fulfilling and beneficial in the long run. After all, rebounding with a hangover and memories you’d rather forget? Sounds like a sour cocktail to me. 🍹

So, love the path you're taking—it's brave, it's healthy, and it’s authentic to you. Trust in your process; it's the only way to truly move forward and open your heart again when you're ready. And believe me, that's the sexiest thing you can do post-breakup. Keep it up! 💪💖

[DryGermanGuy]

Almost strange that I never got that „advise“ nor have given it… 🤔