Would you be great partner for someone?

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Honestly, I would not. I would be absolutely terrible. Whoever chooses to want to be with me, I hope they’re smart enough to find someone else.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I think you sell your self to short.. . and only you know the reasons why.. but that's ok. It just means you need to work on the things you think are the reason why.

I think you feel you would be hurt to.
You have to realize. No. Matter what we all have been hurt. And we all have made it through it.
I think people who are afraid to live life are the ones who suffer this the most.. .. life is to short not to believe in yourself or some one else...

For me I would rather have the pain of loving someone and it not working. Then the pain of never knowing. What could have been. And all the good things that might come from it... It's kind of crazy to say but a lot of good things come from pain that we cannot control. That we get from others. . And I'm talking about only in relationships when we love somebody and they don't love us that it's okay we gain knowledge and we. In a relationship even in life we're here to become the best we could become and if it fails or if we fail. It's okay because what we gain is something somewhere down the road called success everything is a building block the stepping stone to life and enjoying it..

oldawg · Accepted Answer

No I don't believe that I would and the reason for this is I have been a Lone Wolf my whole life with a very few times that I wasn't and believe me it wasn't for the lack of trying but I guess I wasn't built that way. So I guess I am destined to be this way but a word of advice to the younger guys like me:... You may believe that it is a great lifestyle and I know that it is but that lifestyle that you are enjoying won't last but hey I got a good 40+ years of it ut it or I should say you start to slow down and your looks and body starts going for a shit, anyways I guess what I'm trying to say is that along the way if you come across that special woman and believe me you will so you might want to think through the path your leading and then take a good hard look at her and then think about that path. Because now I think back I missed a lot of chances with some very special and beautiful girls but hey I sure had a great time and I mean the best time but take it from an ol' pro... IT DOESN'T LAST...

I'm not sure if this is what you were looking for and if not you can do what you want with it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I hope so. I would try to be. Mental health issues create some unique difficulties in my romantic relationships, but I love deeply. I hope someone someday will love my positive qualities enough to look past the negative ones.

Account · Accepted Answer

No. Not in the way they would want me to be. It is hard to explain. For a person similar to myself, I would be a great partner. For most people I wouldn't be.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I think I'd be a great one. I want to be the one who works in a one income household, have children and be an active role in my family and an attentive husband to my wife. I want to take care of my family and have a role in a community.

I think my biggest issues are I can be "smothering" or overly affectionate for some girls. It surprises some as it's not something you'd expect from me based on my behavior in general and that has turned some girls away in the past.

Additionally I'm pretty stubborn. I am open to suggestion but you have to walk me through anything I disagree with and I will poke holes wherever I can in your logic. This has led to several arguments but I argue with as little emotion and try to lower my voice specifically whenever I do argue.

dragoblack · Answer

I believe myself able to, but can't say it's going to be very adventurous. I'm supportive, i have a wide variety of knowledge, im a nerd, i cross city bicycle, i give relaxing massages, i have a great amount of craft knowledge... but my financial overhead for fun is about $150 a month... which doesn't go very far nowadays. Plus, with my GERD, drinking is off the table.
Simply put, great partner, but boring person. I honestly would rather cuddle with a movie, or go bicycling along a scenic trail instead of going out clubbing, shopping, or bar hopping.

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

I don't really totally understand what "being a partner" is. I mean, how is it any different than "being a friend", especially since now we have "friends, with benefits", right? Does that mean our friends do our taxes for us?

Serkee · Answer

I would certainly try to be, but whether I am or not is up to my partner as well. I could be a great partner for one person, and a terrible one for someone else while acting the same. Some people just aren't compatible.

HawkPerception · Answer

I think I check off on most of the boxes, except I'm broke and trying to get my life together, which seems to be the biggest factor for girls around my age. So from my standpoint, I think I would be, but from most girl's standpoint, I'm not.

Simslover92 · Answer

To be completely honest, no. I'm a mess. And yet my boyfriend loves me anyways knowing how messed up I am. I just don't get it.

Anonymous · Answer

No. But I would be a solid one. And one thing I pride myself on is my ability to learn from my mistakes. So the partnership would only improve if she was committed as much as I.

But it's all good since this relationship will always remain a hypothetical possibility state and never a reality.😆 They say you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. I disagree. I say if you don't try, you cannot fail.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I am me... if he accepts it, I will be the best partner he can imagine :D

Skinhead-1979 · Answer

Nope... The previous one has killed me off; I am too broken, too damaged, and I don't dare to get into another relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I have been for the last 15 years. But if I wasn’t a her I think so. Obviously I’m doing something right if she’s been w me for this long.

paledreams · Answer

Too often in my 20s, how many many women ♀️👠 seemed to not even consider my pros versus, my con/s or my shortcomings lol 😆

EmmaMary · Answer

@peridot25  Thankfully I already am to my husband, which he naturally reciprocates.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I try my best to be n gladly my partner always tell me he feels lucky to have me n i always say no its me who is lucky to have him

Crazzyyworld · Answer

I am from dysfunctional family. My mind is broken and my life is torn. So I won’t be a good mate. But I can provide good sex.

slatyb · Answer

My wife is happy with me, so it seems I'm a great partner for one woman.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Tbh if i had to live with myself itd be fine but it wouldn't be a relationship in any meaningful sense

SotiCoto · Answer

Hell no.  All I'm good for is helping people realise that murder is always the best solution.

Anonymous · Answer

He would surely feel rejected a lot and unloved because I have no interest in sex, I'm not into physical touch and I never let my guard down.

Unit1 · Answer

Not to those, that want marriage or kids or both. Aside from that, i'm good.

Kelly6 · Answer

@peridot25 i'm already great partner for my husband

Shiningtempest · Answer

I would be a horrible partner for someone because I generally dislike making compromises & I'm a short fused person.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I think I would

exitseven · Answer

yes, I am a good partner to my wife.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Wish a bit of work and polish maybe 😂

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

I would like to think so

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you have such low self-esteem?

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

NO... ITS NO WONDER IM SINGLE

NathanDavis · Answer

I am.

youandi_ · Answer

I wouldn't.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Nope.

eagle1951 · Answer

na to old

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