Should I send a snap chat friend request to a "lady" my husband met at a bonfire?

[Anonymous]

My husband went to a bonfire with his guys for the 4th leaving me at home and his WEDDING RING! he got home late. Went straight to bed. As he was in bed I heard his phone going off a lot. I never been one to look at my husbands phone. But that night I did because it woke me up. He talked about how nice it was to meet her. Had kissy faces... told her he was going to bed. The whole two weeks being there she was constantly messaging him at night to early morning. His uncle died during my trip out there. As he was just in another room he told her he was at his aunts and talked to her for 9 minutes. I'm very pregnant about to have this baby any minute. After the call. He told her how beautiful her hair was and everything. So I'm not sure if I'm being hormonal or what.. so today he tells me how he had to calm her down readonly and her mom called him to have him cheer her up. Me being at my home town. To have our first baby. I feel like something isn't adding up. Even her user name is a red flag to me. It's very inappropriate for a lady who doesn't seek married men. But he tells me she's not white that's just her last name. 🤔 even tho I seen the baby pictures of her on her public profile... am I being paranoid or what? Should I add her and see what's up or leave it be until baby girl comes...

[Momma-404]

I would investigate more. Your gut isn’t lying to you and you’re seeing all the red flags. I think he’s being unfaithful and not honest with you at all.

[Asker]

So should I add her on snap? Because I don't know how or where to even look her up at... I'm also not out there to see his phone.

[Asker]

I might be blocked on Instagram by her or something... because it says 2 people like this and only shows my husbands personal acount. Or it will show one person liked this and it shows me nothing.

[Momma-404]

You could very well be blocked by her on instagram then. Try adding her on snap and see if she accepts. If you’re blocked on insta she might already be sus though

[Asker]

Well I added her on snap. I don't wven know how to start a convo with her... "hey girl this is (name here) "aunt who he was with because his uncle past. Just letting you know he was home with his pregnant wife at our house.