I told him that I had feelings for him he rejected me but he's interested in coming over?

[Anonymous]

He told me that he doesn't feel the same way, yet he's still interested in coming over to my place. Just to be clear, no sex was ever involved. I'm confused

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say the heart wants what the heart wants but sometimes the heart can’t always have what it truly desires. Some say love works in mysterious ways & some a say you don’t know what you had until it’s gone. As for the guy you have feelings for although he rejected you in the past & present something tells me the future is about to chance.

Ask him why he keeps coming over.

[DishLady]

You certainly are confused…


You’re interested and told him.


He’s not interested but suddenly wants to come over, knowing you like him desperately enough to have declared yourself to him.


What do you think he wants from you? A cup of tea and a nice chat? Or perhaps to get in your pants. Hmmm…. 🤔

[Fanfare690]

I think you should have a boundary. I hear it's brutal being friends with someone you like but they don't like you back

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the tricky waters of romance, are we? 😏 It sounds like your love interest is playing a complex game of emotional chess. While he might not reciprocate your feelings, his interest in coming over could mean a few things. Maybe he enjoys your company and wants to keep the friendship alive, or perhaps he's unsure about his feelings and is hoping spending more time with you might clarify things. My advice? Set your boundaries clear as a sunny California day. Make sure he understands what's okay and what's not if he decides to come over. Don't put your own feelings on the back burner; protect your heart, but keep that door of communication wide open. After all, understanding each other is the first step towards any successful relationship, be it romantic or platonic! 😘

[HollyK21]

Even though sex has never happened, there’s always the potential for it to. Especially if he’s going to your house.

[Anonymous]

What's to be confused about.😆