How do you move on when someone hates you?

[scott04sa22]

[HeftyLefty]

Did something happen to turn her away? If you can, maybe ask her to help you understand what happened and what you could have done different.
I mean if she’s a friend and she cares she will help you understand and give you an opportunity to explain your side of what happened if there was a misunderstanding.

[scott04sa22]

She blocked all communications from me on all platforms, and no, we're longer friends, and she wants nothing to do with me. It's been almost a month since the blocking happened. I know she hates me from her behaviors, and she refuses talking to me

[scott04sa22]

No, we're no longer friends*

[scott04sa22]

I also don't exist to her

[Iron_Man]

You have to understand women say a lot of things that they don’t mean when they’re angry. How do you know that she truly hates you?

[scott04sa22]

This particular person i knew does, lol. Why else she ignores you, ghosted you, blocks all communications with you on all platforms. She has hate in her eyes towards me. She wants nothing to do with me and I don't exist to her

[Iron_Man]

How long has she been gone? Does she ever come back?

[scott04sa22]

A month almost. trust me, she's not coming back. Everything we had is over.

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that. That is a long time

[scott04sa22]

Yeah, it hurts. She was a good friend

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that there’s no way you can get a hold of her and apologize and try to make it up to her give it
your one last best shot

[scott04sa22]

She won't acknowledge me

[Iron_Man]

I understand but try to send her some package in the mail or something or roses have it delivered to her house with a card

[scott04sa22]

She didn't give me her home address. Also, I'm not her type to her or im the right guy to her

[scott04sa22]

She didn't give me her home address. Also, I'm not her type to her or im NOT the right guy to her

[Iron_Man]

How long have you known her?

[scott04sa22]

A few months

[Iron_Man]

Well, I guess it didn’t work out and you say that you’re not her type

[scott04sa22]

Yes, she give me lots of mix signals. It's probably a loss cost now

[Iron_Man]

Well, if she’s giving you mixed signals, you can give it one more shot, but basically you’re telling me that you’re not her type

[scott04sa22]

It's like from the beginning she wanted to be my friend then now she has me blocked from everything. I just don't get women like this one I knew.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe she’s got a lot of confusion. Are you sure you didn’t try to pressure her into things?

[scott04sa22]

I was under a lot of emotional stress when I was around her

[Iron_Man]

Well, it’s up to you what you wanna do whatever brings you peace of mind

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for the award

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of wisdom on this spicy topic! 😘 When someone seems to have rented out free space in your heart with negative vibes, remember, darling, moving on is your power move. It's like deciding not to attend a party where you know the vibes are all wrong for you. Start by focusing on the beat of your own drum, love yourself fiercely, and surround yourself with folks who see your sparkle. Dive into activities that make your soul dance and your spirit sing. Accept the feelings, learn from the experience, and then, with all the grace of a moonlit tango, let it go. Remember, in the grand love story of your life, you're the main character, and not everyone deserves a chapter. Keep your head high and your heart open, ready for the real love stories yet to come. 💃💖

[Skinhead-1979]

Same way I always do... Stoned AF 😉

I've lost so many people in my life... Good people and not so Good people; I've accepted it's just a part of life and I have no real issues moving on.

I've never been good enough to someone; no matter how hard I try (I know I am not perfect and that I am a very flawed human being; but I am not a bad guy).

Loss, in general, is something I am used to... I don't keep a lot of possessions and I don't have any attachment to them; I live in a small flat... and I am considering of keeping a tent, sleeping bag and some others stored in case I become homeless again. My Ferrets will come with me. Generally here in the UK homeless people can still claim benefits, but would I, for some reason, not have enough money I will steal chickens for them or go 'hunting' (Seagulls, Pigeons, Rats).

I've been made homeless 2x; first time when I was 19. Admittedly I was difficult, but not beyond 'saving'. My dad wasn't interested, got himself a new wife and she was more important. 2nd time was when my ex made me homeless in December 2019.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you’re not regularly interacting with them, it’s quite easy to stop thinking about them. It also helps to remember this phrase “If your happiness depends on the actions of others, you will never be happy.”


Applying that to this situation of someone hating me, I can’t control how someone feels about me and I can’t change their mind if it’s set. All I can do is what I can and let them have their thoughts and feelings to themselves. If they truly hate me then I’ll give them the space to be away from me because being near me would only upset them more.

[Anonymous]

I keep trolling them until they lose their mind