Have you ever fumbled a good woman?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever lost a genuinely good woman? How did you feel? What qualities and traits did she have that made her a good woman?

[Skinhead-1979]

Most I have been are good females.

It's of course difficult to say that about my ex whom I suspect may have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and has emotionally abused me; but Narcissism is a Personality Disorder, people who suffer from that are not evil... they simply can't help it. There are often also serious reasons for it why they have become who they are and behave the way they do. Not everyone is being born with 'NPD'; trauma can cause people to develop the disorder. And that's what I think has happened with my ex and why I will not call her a 'Bad Woman'

[Purpleronnie]

Don’t they all start out with the potential to be good 😂?


Can’t say I’ve made mistakes and lost a good woman that haven’t been on purpose. I’d happily still be with my first proper girlfriend if it was just about keeping hold of a good one but it’s not been solely up to me. Yeah I have likely made actual errors just like the next guy but none that have ended the relationship. I have also initiated the break-up of every relationship I was in apart from 1 where she completely stole my heart then moved away. So whether luck or by my design , no fumbles !

[Nikki1989]

Men do it all the time. It is the “don't know what you got till its gone” syndrome.

[just_a_potato]

Nah I never fumble good women, because I always accidently go for the crazy ones 😎

[AI Opinion]

Jumping right into the deep end, aren't we? 😉 Losing a genuinely good woman can feel like watching a masterpiece painting catch fire—devastating and irreplaceable. I've seen it; the pain, the "what ifs," and that hollow feeling of loss. A good woman, from my experience and observations, carries qualities like empathy, strength, understanding, and an amazing sense of humor that can light up even the darkest of rooms. She's someone who's not just there for the ride but is your co-pilot, navigating through life's storms with grace and resilience. When you lose someone like that, it's not just a person you're missing, but a piece of your heart. The key takeaway? Cherish and water the garden you have, so you never have to feel the drought. 😌💔✨

[AviatorTom]

Many times. We guys aren't always that smart. But we learn and eventually end up with a very good woman.

[TDDMS]

Yes I have. When we were kids many times we didn't have a football. So we use to use the girls. Just throw them over our shoulder start running down the field. One time this one chick couldn't keep still as I was running down the field not trying to get tackled. And shwoops I dropped her. I tried to pick her up. But listening to a girl complain about a possible concussion. . . . well I wasn't going to tolerate that. I just let the opposing team take her and run her into the end zone.

True story by the way.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Nope. All the women I'd say I've fumbled were crazy, I was just chasing them for their sex appeal.

Several women I'd say have fumbled me based on the time period where I was too much of a "nice guy". I treated them insanely well and it never worked for me. I'm in a way better position in life than those 3 girls, I do genuinely wish the best for them though.

[MK1997]

Are you sure it's not you that's crazy?

[bobby_bush_eater]

@MK1997 I think the clinical BPD and the long term depression in 3 of the girls satisfies that they were crazy.

I was naive but they were undoubtedly crazy.

[MK1997]

I think you are crazy too

[bobby_bush_eater]

@MK1997 I suppose that's a manner of perspective 🤷‍♂️

[Happybf02]

I had the sweetest most caring girlfriend ever made food for work an after work did all my laundry an washed my car anything to be helpful while she still worked full time an I decided to try convince her friend to peg me an she told her so she left me :\

[on_my_knees]

Yes, but they ended up pregnant or Jesus freaks so who cares.

[Colon_Colonizer]

Only thickdicked losers get women pregnant. Have you ever tried anal?

[LiamJHayden]

I have broken up with genuinely good women because we were not compatible in some ways.

[Yannae]

Yes, but I wasn't interested so I don't really feel bad about rejecting her.

[genericname85]

"lost" implies i could have had her. so in my case no xD

[justabuddy]

Everyone has I think. Life is full of lessons and you have to make a few mistakes to learn.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I think at least one. How did I feel about what?

[Sasquach]

A couple times, but ya know you live and learn

[OhLongJohnsoning]

I seem to attract assholes