Is it true that in a relationship a girl initiates intimacy if she feels emotionally validated?

[Anonymous]

Personally I feel this, is it true universally?

[sawno]

I find this a bit of an odd question, I know some girls initiate sex to get validation but in a happy relationship of course both partners would initiate if they both enjoy sex. If she feels attracted to her partner that's an automatic given isn't it?

When she is on the insecure side or doesn't feel validated having a guy be turned on about her can be validating. If she's lacking love the loving intimacy during the act can be validating, etc.

So I don't think sex is necessarily tied to feeling validated or not, i think it has much more to do with feeling comfortable around and attracted to a partner. Sex becomes rare when other things are up, like maybe he hurt her in some way and she's dealing with the pain. Maybe something he's doing has began turning her off, maybe she's considering leaving, etc. But I don't see those things tied to feeling validated.

[handsomelad70]

I think so, but sometimes it's the opposite if she's feeling needy.

[Anonymous]

The other question you just asked with the big long story was sufficient.

[Asker]

I am anxious. I have no friends. U dont wanna see you ignore instead of acting shitty and nosy

[StudyingAuthor]

Ma'am... didn't you just post the same question less than 2 minutes ago?

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of your question, it's like hitting the jackpot of relationship dynamics! Emotional validation is indeed a heavy hitter in the love game, making someone feel heard, understood, and respected. This magical potion often does open doors to deeper intimacy, as feeling emotionally secure with your partner can make you more inclined to share yourself on a more intimate level. However, remember, everyone's love recipe is unique. Some might seek different ingredients like trust, adventure, or intellectual connection before turning up the heat. It's all about knowing your partner’s recipe by heart. So, universally true? Maybe not for everyone, but it's definitely a common theme in the symphony of love. Keep those emotions validated and watch the sparks fly! 😉

[Anonymous]

Some. Most women today are a ball of emotional knots that it would take far to long untangling to ever achieve this.