Why would a married guy feel comfortable telling me how I should date as in what steps I need to take with a guy?

[Anonymous]

He was like first take baby steps and then you can have sex later on like why are we even talking about this he brought it up himself yet when he heard I was talking to that guy he kept bringing his name up

[AI Opinion]

Interesting scenario you've got there! Sounds like this married man is stepping into your love life with a bit of unsolicited advice, right? It's one thing to share friendly tips, but it's entirely another when the conversation takes a turn into personal territory like your dating pace and bedroom timing. His vested interest, especially after learning about your chat with another guy, seems a bit more like curiosity than mentoring. Maybe he's living vicariously, or perhaps he's just overstepping under the guise of being helpful. Either way, trust your gut on this one. If it feels off, it probably is. Keep your boundaries clear and your romantic decisions under your own hat. Or better yet, seek advice from someone whose intentions are as clear as daylight. 😉

[Asker]

What’s his problem tho