Girls, how do you prefer your SO to respond when you're in a bad mood?

[Anonymous]

Acknowledge it and be kinder to you

Just accept it and act like nothing

Give you space

Something else (explain below)

A total of 28 votes were cast: 15 girls and 13 guys. See detailed results

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+1 y

I'm just referring to hormonal, or unexplained bad moods. Nothing identifiable causing it. Just a "I feel irritable" kind of situation.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Depends on why I'm in a bad mood I guess.
Most likely just to give me some space. Or talk it through with me, maybe hugs.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Acknowledge and give me space.

[dustybiker2]

This.

[DishLady]

Mindful response and a little space if I need it, esp if there's nothing for him to "fix".

Or, if there's a disagreement between us, to be kind and logical in stating the problem rather than ranting aggressively.

[Anonymous]

I refuse to be with any woman who can’t speak and communicate in English, especially if she takes anger out on me over things that aren’t my fault. If I legitimately fuck up (not something petty) then I completely understand and I want a woman whose the same way.

Sometimes we as humans need space, sometimes we need someone to vent to, sometimes we need a shoulder to cry on, and the list goes on. Just be honest.

Though sometimes sudden outbursts of anger is a bad sign. Sometimes it can be pent up aggression towards you. Whether it’s something you did or she is doing. It could be that the relationship is doomed to fail.

In reality dude. Don’t waste your time with childish immature women. Not every woman thinks the same way. Have someone whose honest and can communicate like a adult. As time goes on you’ll both be better able to gauge one another. But you’re not telepathic. If a woman wants to play games. Let her go have fun witn the bad boys who will make her miserable in the end.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Just give me space but I don't want her to keep her needs from me. Last thing I need is to be in a bad mood AND I don't have my woman telling me about what needs to be taken care of.

I might not get to it exactly the way she wants but your responsibilities as a man don't stop just because you're in a bad mood.

Just bring me peace, as long as she's doing her job in the first place not much needs to change. I'll always have patience for the people I love that's my job.

[Asker]

I like that last line bro. Always have patience for the ones you love. I'm working on it at the moment.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Just remember no one really has a right to make you feel bad if you're genuinely trying your best. Stay loose bro 💪

[Asker]

🍻 🤝

[Caroline91]

There are times when I need a little space and that's what my She Shed is for. I don't get moody often and when I do, I always feel better when he comes into the room. Especially he he hugs me and pulls me in close.

[missindiana93]

Ask me what's wrong and then say something funny to make me laugh. B

[Taniisokay]

SO? what's that?

[Taniisokay]

I would like them to fix my problem if they can if not then listen to me and discuss a way to solve it because I would do the same for them.

[Asker]

Significant other. Boyfriend or husband.

[Asker]

What if it's just a bad mood, and not an actual problem that can be fixed?

[Taniisokay]

For mood, then listen to what made moody and I will appreciate if they don't judge me lol just listen and try to understand me. But being always moody is a problem , if your significant other is always in bad mood then you will feel in bad mood.

[Taniisokay]

Rather to show my bad mood I will take to them what's stressing me out. That way they wouldn't be stressed seeing me stressed too. I like communication part of the relationship.

[Asker]

Thank you for the insights!

[SunnyGirly]

When I am in a bad mood I need attention and also like someone to be strict with me too because I am not thinking right

[Crazzyyworld]

take away my trash

[jahaims]

Context is important