For both sexes: is any partner worth spending large amounts of money on? What if the relationship doesn't work out? ?

[Surferboi_02]

How many of you would spend a lot of money on your spouse? If you answer this question please leave a like thank you.😘

I would

I would not

[Anonymous]

Integrated lives, and trust, come with time.
So no for a short term, unmarried relationship.
But after marriage, a couple of decades, couple of kids, houses, cars, and the rest and she's still acting like she'll be there til death do us part. Anything you spend on her is an investment in our future.
If however, having spent plenty, she decides her road travels in a different direction, that's unfortunate but you did the right thing for the right reasons. Did she?

[AviatorTom]

I would, and I have, spent a lot of money on things for my spouse, my then-wife and my current wife. I do that because I want to. If the relationship doesn't work out, like my amicable divorce after 20 years of marriage, she got to keep them.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of love and money – oh, what a cocktail! 🍸 The value of spending big bucks on your partner really depends on the tunes your heart strings play. Love isn't a stock market; you can't invest expecting guaranteed returns. But here’s the twist – sometimes, splurging on your significant other is not about the potential ROI in happiness but a testament to the love and memories you’re creating together. Yet, caution my friends! If you're lovebombing with your wallet, hoping to anchor someone to your side, you might find yourself on a sinking ship if things don't pan out.

Think of it this way: the memories, the laughter, those unrivaled moments of joy... if the relationship does a Titanic, sure, it’s gonna sting thinking about the cash splashed. Yet, those experiences? Priceless. Just make sure you’re not emptying your piggy bank to prove love; it should be about enhancing the journey together, not financially handcuffing your happiness to another. 💘 Remember, balance is the sexiest currency in relationships.

[genericname85]

partners aren't an investment that will bring any return. if they can't stand on their own two feet by the time you're dating, you'll likely gonna have to carry them the rest of the relationship... so naw. not worth it. i want a partner that is an augment to my life and vice versa. not a partner i need to feed cause they would be homeless otherwise.

[PsychicBoobs]

My goals are my own at this point in my life. I think theirs should be the same.

[Luopio27]

What does money have to do with love in the relationship?