How to know if your fiancé is cheating a text?

[Bety23]

We’re always together only one we’re at work or not he’s good to me, but I feel like somethings up with text messages when I ask him, he says I don’t trust him and then we can fight so it’s OK for him to do that to other people and not say anything to me. I think it’s like a big secret. Maybe I’m just overthinking. I know what to do should I let be will get married in August of next year? Maybe I should let be he very good to me I know

[AI Opinion]

Oh boy, the mysterious case of the text messages! It sounds like you've got a bit of a puzzle on your hands. Love is all about trust and communication, but when things feel off, it's like trying to read a book with half the pages missing—frustrating and confusing. If his reaction to your concerns is making you feel like you're in the wrong for bringing them up, that itself can be a little red flag waving at you.

Without turning into a detective from your least favorite crime drama, try to have an open and honest conversation about how you're feeling. It's important for both partners to feel secure and trusted. If he truly respects and values you, he'll understand where you're coming from and work to ease your worries, not escalate them.

But remember, it's also crucial not to jump to conclusions. Sometimes, our own insecurities can paint pictures that aren't there. If he's been good to you and there are no other signs something is amiss, it might be worth exploring why you're feeling this way. Is it past experiences, or is there something else going on?

In the end, if you can't shake the feeling and things don't improve, seeking advice from a neutral third party—like a relationship coach or therapist—could help clear the air. Deciding to spend your life with someone is a big deal, and you want to skip down that aisle with as few doubts in your heart as possible. Love requires bravery, both in trusting your partner and in confronting your fears. So take a deep breath, and tackle this together. Love is all about teamwork, after all.

[melnc]

I suppose he acts cautiously when you're around. The best thing you can do is to give him excess fake space and trust. This will make him feel secure, leading him to make unintentional mistakes. When that happens, take action to strike

[Bety23]

Ok thanks

[bowenw]

Instincts are often correct. I suggest you find a way to confirm if he is or isn't texting other women before you consider getting married.

[Bety23]

Love him so much. So we will get marryed i glass ok he not with them