If your partner has an onlyfans would you consider that cheating?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's the same thing as with pornstars - it unsettles most people that their partner shares their private parts with the whole wide world. Gotta have some real balls to think "You know what, doesn't bother me one bit, won't ruin my relationship."

Think from a man's point of view: How come is it literally every other guy in the world paid money to see my girlfriend naked, but while I am in a relationship with her, I am not guaranteed to have even that? It's gonna upset guys who want to have a special relationship with their girlfriend. Some, probably a lot, might consider that emotional cheating.

I mean listen, if a woman would have heard her boyfriend was sharing nudes with every other woman while neglecting a relationship with her, she would probably be pissed and consider that emotional cheating too.

Personally? If she's just selling nudes, don't care. If she's hooking up with guys for money or her 'biggest fans' when we both agreed to not fuck other people, then I have a problem. If we both agreed we have an open relationship though, I could give less than two shits. But gotta communicate that stuff.

Rodburner23 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely if they are posting pics or videos of them in anything revealing or straight naked hell yes it's cheating

WintersDaughter · Accepted Answer

Yes. Then again, I wouldn't be with anyone that has an only fans, whether they're making content or subscribing to one.

If I found out my boyfriend or husband was subscribing, it would be a long conversation about porn addiction and getting him help.

12karen · Accepted Answer

Yes.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, the spicy world of OnlyFans, where the digital age meets the age-old question of boundaries in relationships! 😏 The answer to whether it's considered cheating really sizzles down to one key ingredient: communication. If both partners have had a candid chat and agreed on what's cool and what's not in their relationship, then having an OnlyFans account could be fine as a sunny day in California. But if it goes against the grain of what one partner feels comfortable with, it starts drifting into red flag territory. Like a plot twist in a love story, it's all about mutual understanding and respect. Compatibility is king (or queen), after all! So, let's chat, negotiate, and maybe flirt a little with the boundaries and find what makes our hearts sing.💖

HawkPerception · Answer

I wouldn't even consider dating a girl with OnlyFans. If she starts an OnlyFans while I'm with her, even worse. I wouldn't be with a girl like that

AviatorTom · Answer

I wouldn't consider it cheating, but unless we talked about it and both agreed for her to do OF, I would consider it not good for our relationship.

hahahmm · Answer

Late reply but, in and of itself it isn't cheating but a very high percentage of strippers, porn stars, "IG models" and OF models are also prostitutes and will agree to sex for money if their fans asks. The pictures are all just marketing for the sex. So it would mean that she is basically a hooker or wannabe hooker in training and she will convert over to hooker the first time some dude with a lot of $$$ makes her an offer. Women who aren't open to that don't go down this road in the first place.

But let's say she's that 1 in a million woman who can stick to just doing pictures and would rather slit her wrist than be a hooker. There's still the fact that my wife is into making cheap pictures when I didn't knowingly marry a woman into that. That's not going to fly and would be a major problem.

I don't have this issue because I would have never even dated an OF type or took them seriously so they would never become "partner" or more.

Anonymous · Answer

We wouldn’t be together. If a girl can sell pics of herself like that for a few dollars imagine what she’d do if the right man came around waving thousands of dollars in her face for a blowjob. Not even thousands, maybe hundreds. She’s not for me. Something like that is a special bond that only two people should share. To know that I’m that special person in your life that you’d sure that w me just as you’re the special person in my life that I’d share it w you. It’s not special if every person can see it by just paying a few cents a day to get access to what I see.

MisterWack · Answer

If my partner didn’t inform me of their profession and kept it from me, I’d feel hurt & cheated & lied to NOT cheated as in ‘cheater’.

Imagine if your partner was a doctor for the longest time and lied to you that they were a barista or just said they were unemployed while dating for months…. That would suck especially if you shared yours with them.

I wouldn’t consider it cheating also I’d be happy for her doing what she loves. I don't know.

avery58 · Answer

Well I don't think many guys have an onlyfans... But if he uses it to subscribe to onlyfans content creators, yes I would consider that cheating since it's basically like paying a prostitute for her services

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PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yes since they are doing sexually explicit stuff and engaging with other people. Same as if my man was paying an OF slut, that is defo cheating because he is giving her money and engaging her.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

I wouldn’t be okay with it, no. I don't know if I would consider posting sexual content as “cheating.” But it’s definitely not something I’m comfortable with and it would be breaking a boundary

fentom · Answer

Well, it depends. If the person is in a relationship and keeps this OnlyFans profile as a secret, then it may sound like cheating, indeed. I think that before creating 18+ accounts, talk to your partner and make sure that you understand how he / she feels about it.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

No, but I would be hesitant to get in a relationship with a woman who felt the desire to make money that way.  It's just reflective of an approach to life and relationships that I don't agree with.

ManInChains · Answer

Absolutely. They’re willingly giving away their body, something they claim to be sacred, away for other guys to drool over and let loose their loads over. How is it not considered cheating?

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yes i’d consider him a cheating cheap whore of a man to be out there selling himself

BetaBucks · Answer

If there is anything sexual and any males that have or can access it, then yeah.

tzdc21 · Answer

Absolutely yes. That's a major no no. You're selling your body to other men while one guy has already committing to you. That is cheating.

rosemilk · Answer

yes, in my opinion, that is technically cheating.

jshm2 · Answer

Most Onlyfans creators will have partners. It is taxable income, after all.

Grond21 · Answer

It's completely cheating, and I would never date a girl who would consider it, let alone actually pull the trigger and do it

dragoblack · Answer

No. Because unless she is sleeping with someone else for onlyfans videos, you knew what you were getting into when dating her, accepting that kind of relationship contract.

Phoenix98 · Answer

If I found out my partner had an only fans I'd leave her that'd same day.

Tim2nice · Answer

No. Cheating means doing something without your knowledge or permission.

Nik1hil · Answer

Depends on her Content of onlyfans.

DextroShade · Answer

Yes, 100%. If any dude can see her naked for a few bucks a month she is not fit to be a wife and never will be.

Unit1 · Answer

It means we're not exclusive. She'll be downgraded to for recreation only.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Of course not! Cheating is physical. OF is a job - non traditional - but still a job.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No, but I would not stay with her if I found out.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I don't know if it's cheating but we're no longer dating once I find out either way

Iron_Man · Answer

I would end it on the spot that is cheating

Pohjolan · Answer

Not cheating but not telling it is a pretty big red flag.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't seriously date a babe w only fans. But they make perfect FWBs

justabuddy · Answer

I will not even follow an onlyfans creator on social media. I don't think it's a good career choice unless you have no other options.

MrOracle · Answer

If my girlfriend had an OF, I would be single.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I'd consider myself single

SunnyGirly · Answer

No as long as he hides his face

worldscolide · Answer

Yes, and I'd divorce instantly

genericname85 · Answer

not cheating. but betrayal.

Kelly6 · Answer

@oddbeme To us OnlyFan is not cheating

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Would leave her immediately.

nawtee_me · Answer

Not if I was subscribed to it….

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

laly520 · Answer

I'd end relationship

Jpie555 · Answer

Not at all… just a way to make money… cool by me

scott04sa22 · Answer

Nope nope

Ladsin2 · Answer

Obviously.

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