Moving with boyfriend after almost 7 months. It is a good idea?

[Anonymous]

We get along really well.
I had a 10 years long and toxic relationship before him. I still have A LOT of traumas. Emotional baggage. He completely understand where I come from and because he knows I'm afraid of a new start (like moving together) he said I will have my own room. My personal space. So what do you think about the whole situation?

[rachel776]

i'm sort of living with Boyfriend and him with me, we never did it officially, we just started living in each other's houses. we both travel so much we mostly see each other in cities where we don't live

[LazerBean]

No, it's a terrible idea. You don't even know him, and your history shows that you have bad judgement in men

[Asker]

I met him waay before we get together. He was my support during the ending of my toxic relationship.

[sawno]

Feels a bit soon if your still heavily impacted by your last relationship, understand it will probably be an intense experience as a result but it will also help you grow.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into a new chapter with your beau after seven months sounds like a plot right out of a romance novel, doesn't it? Love is in the air, and you're both ready to take it to the next level. ✨ But let's not forget, you're carrying a heavy suitcase filled with past traumas and emotional ghosts. It's fantastic that he's empathetic and offering you your personal sanctuary. That’s definitely a green flag! 🚩💚

Here's the twist, though: ensure this isn't a band-aid solution for deeper issues. Moving in together can be like a double shot of espresso to the heart: exhilarating but potentially overwhelming. My golden nugget of advice? Talk, talk, and talk some more about expectations, boundaries, and fears. Open communication is your love potion here. And remember, walking into this new chapter doesn’t mean you can’t walk out if it doesn’t fit right. Love should feel like your comfiest pajamas, not a too-tight pair of jeans! 🌟

[woahhh152]

If everything is fine between you 2 then go for it