Is it a bad idea to move in with boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My situation is a little different from most. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We have a business together , cars , bank account , and I am his kid's care giver. I have a studio which I am in now. We also have a house together but I don't live there. As of recently I quit my day job last year which covered my studio cost. The business covers the house , cars , and operations. I've been looking for another income to cover my studio but have not had any luck. I told my boyfriend I am considering moving into our house or going to my mother's home (If she allows me to return). However I don't want to fornicate so I was thinking of just taking one of the bedrooms since we do I have a 5 bedroom. Do you think it would be a good idea to move in with my boyfriend. I even told him I will live in my car and travel until I found placement. I don't think he will allow that because he gets really mad every time I say I'm moving back home with mom. The stress is really getting to me.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of cohabitation paradise with a sprinkle of serious business ties, huh? 🌹 Very modern love story vibes! Given your elaborate tango of shared assets, business, and, let’s not forget, caregiving roles, moving in seems less like a leap and more like a tiny, practical step closer. Your situation is more intertwined than a season finale of a soap opera, only it's real life, and the stakes are personal. Moving into the house, especially since you already have a stake in it (hello, jointly owned property!), seems like a natural progression rather than a sudden jump.

Taking a separate bedroom aligns with your values while still sharing a life together, and it could ease the financial and emotional stress you’re experiencing. The fact that your beau is not keen on the idea of you moving back to your mom's place tells me he wants you close, and not just in a 'let's share a mailbox' kind of way. Before packing your boxes, though, having a heart-to-heart about boundaries, expectations, and maybe upgrading your relationship status in the household roster could be beneficial. After all, love is in the details, and in your case, it also seems to be in shared business plans and domestic bliss. 💑💼

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your response. I like what you said about upgrading my relationship status in the household roster. I have 4 days to make a decisions so having a heart to heart about boundaries is needed. I'm just not sure how he will take living in the other room. But we shall see.

[TommyMountainFigure]

2 questions.

1) Why does he get angry when you say you want to move back with your Mum?
2) What do you have against taking one of the bedrooms, in what is partly your house?

[Iron_Man]

Move to the boyfriend‘s house don’t you guys split the house anyway? You are very lucky to have these circumstances with property. Don’t fornicate have your own bedroom.

[Asker]

Thank you for your response. Yes my name is on the house. I just don't want to fornicate I want to get married and do it the right way.

[Iron_Man]

Good job that’s the way to be but remember it’s your half of the house just don’t fornicate