How would you feel if someone won your heart over in what you thought was a unique way but he/she later told you that it was a recycled routine 10x?

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The same routine was used on 10 others before being used on you. He/she loves you now.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I don't care if it's a recycled routine. What matters is our connection with each other and if she truly loves me and if I truly love her. We all tend to have some habits and things that are our style when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. It's not like everything we do is original in life. There are 8 billion people in the world. Like come on... the chances are... we're the farthest thing from original.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I think it would just depend on the relationship if I felt the person was disingenuous then I would probably be concerned especially if it feels like it’s going too fast that can be a major red flag.

But if she genuinely is into me as much as I’m into her then absolutely we would continue and I may be impressed by her ability to attract people so fast. Especially if someone can choose anyone but has chosen me.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I probably would take sometime to think about it. Because I don't know, he is just doing something he knows will make me fall for him. It isn't genuine plus he did the same things with 10 other girls. So not really my type of guy, I don't want to be with a guy who is just scheming. I rather he say and do what he truly feels, not because he knows doing (A) rather than (B) will get him the good ending lol.

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

It would depend how it comes up, how he explains it and maybe my mood at the time but most likely I would find it hilarious and cute.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Imagine thinking you've been swept off your feet by the most original romantic gesture, only to find out you're actually watching a rerun. Ouch, right?🙈 But let's spin this—the fact they're recycling their A-game means it's tried and tested. However, the real question is, are their feelings for you in the rerun or are they premiering something genuine? If they truly love you NOW, that's what matters most. Just make sure their actions continue to speak louder than their used lines, and you're not just another season in their binge-loving series. It's all about the connection now, not the script they used to get you on board. Love is an ongoing series, after all, not a one-hit wonder! 💖

Keyboardkat · Answer

If she really loves you now, then what does it matter if she used the same routine on ten others? Look at it this way: She had to make ten mistakes before she found you! Or, she kissed a lot of frogs before one turned into her prince!

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Since a unique way, by design, cannot work ten times, then it means I wasn't attentive enough to register a programmed speech used on me,  I can't fall for this trap, I'm very much attentive  lol

Crimsyjo · Answer

Haha if we have strong feelings and I know it worked out for us then with good humour I think it could be turned around into a funny joke between us. After all. If I'm in love with someone and they are me we gotta have good banter!

19magic · Answer

Depends on the reason he used it, cause it's part of a bet to see how quickly I'd fall or he thought I was interesting and that's he way to get with a girl. Also depends if he's doing this exclusively too

NathanDavis · Answer

well, I've never fallen in love because of routines or acts... to me, it is more about their personality and traits of character... and not the ones you can put on show on...

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't see why that would be an issue for me... If someone has game, they have game. The reality is that we're all recycling game to a certain extent.

Anonymous · Answer

It would certainly cause me to rethink things and look with a very discerning eye. I would feel that nothing was special about getting together with me as opposed to any other number on the list.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not a problem. Everyone has their own way of doing things.

Lynx122 · Answer

I wouldn't care as long as I get along with them and I like their personality.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’d be furious and wouldn’t believe that they love me now

TeddBioBoo · Answer

I don't think it's such a big deal. Do t be so vein. She still worked her game on you so why does it take away from the like. We all have our own wooing methods and ways. Why should it be different for the ladies. Lol.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I don't care if she uses a rehearsed speech to get my attention as long as she is genuinely into me.

Juxtapose · Answer

I really don't mind as long as they meant it.

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

Honestly, if they love me, that's all that matters.

power_wolf · Answer

you're 34. how choosy can you really be at your age? smh.

thegreenyogi · Answer

I'd be seriously disappointed.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No big deal, if it works it works :)

Ladsin2 · Answer

I think this is a question for women.

Emmytexrex · Answer

That's bad instant cut off without hesitation

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