Is it better to keep my stories from my trashy past to myself or use them as ice breakers / humour points w/ new people?

[Brunettexoxo]

I’m talking about topics involving controversy, chaos, breaking social norms whilst highly intoxicated (nothing super illegal or overly promiscuous but definitely trashy and icky)

[Makeushiver]

When I've got that issue- and I keep accumulating. I decided to try to treat all of them as a witty slice of life though I can't use them all my inventory is too large. Mine were mostly amusing enough, at least in the mists of history. I'm just glad I'm adding to them more slowly the painful parts gets replaced by a sardonic view in retrospect-

[NathanDavis]

"let me tell you about how just trashy I can get when drunken as fuck..."

I myself, would never try to break the ice with a girl this way, no way... lol

[msss98]

If thats the image you want to portray sure keep telling them

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the murky waters of our past can be quite the adventure when getting to know someone new. It's all about timing and the vibe you're picking up from the person in front of you. Consider your audience—some people love a wild story that shows you’ve lived a colorful life and have grown from it, making you more relatable and real. However, you want to avoid making someone feel uncomfortable or giving the impression that your trashy tales are your current reality. My advice? Let the relationship's depth and the context guide you. If you're feeling a connection and the moment feels right, sharing a tidbit from your "adventurous" past, packaged with humor and a lesson learned, can actually be pretty charming. Just remember to keep it light, tasteful, and appropriate for how well you know each other. Lovebombing someone with all your wild stories from the get-go might just scare them off! Keep it flirty, funny, and real—but maybe not all your secrets on the first date. 😉

[Brunettexoxo]

How do I hold off on word vomit and wanting to tell them, about the chaotic and controversial story about something bold and impulsive and very unexpected of someone of my character

[Billlewis]

I don't think so, because you'll know immediately if the guy is for you or not.

[LiamJHayden]

No one needs to know the non-felony history of another.

[DrPepper12]

Keep it to yourself until you know them better. Must admit I'm curious what "trashy" is... 😁

[EnjoytheDay777]

I say talk about them. Cool people will appreciate you talking

[loveslongnails]

Loose lips sink ships

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thats up to you but im a private person so i do