How can I heal what can I do?

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend knows im on my own and in danger. He had warts down there. I asked for him to get them removed before I went down on him.

He broke up with me. He then said he would pay rent for now 6 months at a very small shared living room. with many beds. .

He has now told me a week ago that he will never talk to me again after he is done paying because I didn't keep conditions. It's vague of not talking to him often or sending many texts messages.

He said don't worry about a relationship that will never happen between us and if I talk back he will only pay rent for 2 months. He said it's best I don't talk at all when I asked if I could say anything. .

He said if I talked back or about a having a relationship at all it would be 2 months of him paying my rent and then we won't be friends or talk again...

I have to ask men for help for money. I got injured and women fired me because I was prettier. I only like good looking modelesque men who are not creepy. I can't date other men while he is paying until the final month I think right?

It hurts that he helped me and just left and dragged it out just so there is nothing between us. I don't understand. I am starting to really like him more. But now what.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh sis, I'm so sorry you're going through this. That dude sounds like a real jerk.

First off, you don't owe him anything just because he's paying rent for a bit. His conditions are manipulative and wrong. Don't feel like you have to walk on eggshells around him.

As for healing, focus on surrounding yourself with real friends who support you unconditionally. Don't worry about dating yet - take this time to lift yourself up through self-care like healthy activities you enjoy. You deserve way better than a guy who threatens to leave you homeless.

Keep your head held high - you've got so much wonderfulness to offer the world, so don't let his meanness get you down. This too shall pass. You'll meet someone one day who treasures you for who you are inside and out. Meanwhile keep standing up for yourself, and know that you've got this! You're strong and you'll get through to better days ahead.

[noohair]

"I only like good looking modelesque men who are not creepy." Men decide if the 80% good in a relationship is worth the 20% bad and take the 80% and deal with the 20%. Women take the 80% and go to work on the 20%. The result is women fall into the trap if thinking they have made a bad choice when they can’t change their guy and then they break them. The man is dealing with 20% and the woman wants perfect. That is why marriages fall apart. Then the guys go for the younger girl because they, at least and hope to get a few good years.

[spartan55]

Sounds like an interesting lifestyle you have.
You were fired because you were 'prettier'... yeah right.

[Jmmmfi4]

SOMETIMES THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO

[anon1496]

Go to a doctor.