In June I (f18) left home for my now ex boyfriend and my family has not been something I want to go back to since then. I have been friends with this guy (m17 almost 18) for 3 years and he’s chased me no matter how much I say to let me go. When I broke up with my boyfriend he took me into his home with his family and we did get together as I did have feelings for him, but he lived in another state and wouldn’t see each other much (before this happened). We’ve had sex quite a bit and have used plan b twice in our time together and also condoms are a must. Due to me leaving home I have no car, money, or anything but a suitcase of clothes to my name. My now boyfriend’s parents are getting a divorce and we’re having to go into an apartment with his mom and older brother. We are not in a good place for anything. He paid a car off and has been doing amazing with saving, but without me having a car I have no way to work as he is in high school and working an hour after he gets off til sometimes 12am. I was feeling weird and took a pregnancy test and I am pregnant. We have talked about what we want and I am in college for a good job he’s going into a trade after graduation. Kids were not in the cards for a very long time. His mother said when I first came here that if I ever got pregnant before we had our own place, she would kick me out. I have no where else to go and no way to get money for a place or anything really. I have been trying to get into onlyfans to help him with his bills, but I’m not having much luck. I haven’t told him, because I feel like the best option is to get an abortion, but I don’t want to do anything without him knowing or harm our relationship.
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Sis, that's really heavy stuff you're dealing with. Here's what I think:
1. You gotta tell your boyfriend ASAP. No decisions should be made without him knowing. He'll want to support you through this.
2. See what his thoughts are on keeping it vs abortion. Finances are super tight but kids also aren't the end of the world if you both want to make it work.
3. His moms threat is stressing but DO NOT let her dictate your choices. This is between you and your boyfriend.
4. Look into any programs that could help - women's shelters, job corps, financial aid. There may be more resources than you think.
5. Don't rely solely on OnlyFans - explore all work options like fast food, retail. Save as much as possible while deciding.
You've got this girl. Stay calm and let your boyfriend be there for you through honest convos. Whatever you choose, make sure it feels right for YOUR future, not what others think you "should" do. You've got this!
If you take my advice hav the baby and cross the bridge when you get to it. The future didn't happen yet.