IF you want my honest answer and assuming you do. lol. I believe he is a douche. Either he is the type of guy who will tell you what he thinks no matter how "harsh" it is or he's is a douche and doesn't really care. If you think about it...if you told him it hurts your feelings...then he didn't or doesn't care enough to respect you to stop. He could have done it in a nicer way if he seriously had a problem with it.
If a guy loves you, and has been with you that long...he'd love you just the way you are and see past what ever his hang ups are about you and love you for you. Do you really want to be with a man that does that to you? It doesn't EVEN sound like a big deal either. If you thought it was a problem that is one thing...if you thought it was a problem and he kept making fun of you he's still a jerk because he should know better than to put it like that or bring it up.
Dump him if he doesn't change. You deserve someone who respects you and wouldn't change those things and honestly when you're like 60+ none of this is going to matter. at all.
PLUS! I'm sure there are things you don't like about him. and I'm sure if you pointed it out...he be a girl about it and be on defense.
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I live with someone that does the same thing. He constantly complimented me and was so sweet. well it finally came out one day that He developed a crush a girl at work that is 32 years younger than him.
I don't like the way he says it at all, it's rude. But you only give your side of the story so I don't want to be too harsh on him. 5 lbs over 4 years is not dramatic. But you're still young to stay active and keep yourself in very good shape. May be he's venting about something else?
5'1 and 115 lbs. is very proportional, I have no idea what he's thinking. Even though it's not your nature, maybe pointing out a few of his flaws would get him to see the error of his ways, when it's him on the receiving end of the "constructive criticism" for a change.
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He needs a swift kick in the pants. first of all 26 is young, I would call it prime age.
He probable thinks (if that is possible) he is flawless I would nicely remind him of some of his trouble areas and see how he likes it. He is a guy we are very visual and selfish by nature and some times good common sense is over ruled buy those desires. finally he may just want to spend some time with you. Remember guys think differently.dear... he is interested in someone else... he is comparing you with her. and in my opinion nothing, simply nothing is wrong with you.
why even waste another minute with a punk like that? next thing you know he could be beating you...but you'll still 'love him' I bet
why have a boyfriend when all of us strangers can point out your flaws on the internet for free? no strings attached. and we won't make you take out the trash.
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