Should I continue with this casual relationship, or leave it?

[Anonymous]

I’m at a stage in my life where I don’t feel ready for anything serious. I’ve been enjoying my time with a handsome man, with a beautiful body in a friends with benefits situation. My first time of having sex in 6 years, after having been date raped by someone else. He’s said he wants it to continue to be an ongoing casual relationship. I’m starting to like him a little bit. Is it a mistake to continue seeing him, knowing that’s all he probably wants?

[Nikki1989]

Are you feeling fulfilled and happy in the relationship? If not, it might be time to reassess. Otherwise, keep on doing what works for you.

[Asker]

I think I am 🥰

[DerekC321]

How long have you been in this casual relationship? Like if it's been a while and he hasn't wanted sex, it may be more than just that.

[Asker]

Only a week

[DerekC321]

If you're happy in the relationship, I would say, stay. But talk to him if things get physical. If he cares about your feelings, he'll respect your boundaries

[DerekC321]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Intheclouds00]

Why would you walk away from something that you're enjoying it's like self-destructive

[AI Opinion]

On Girls Ask Guys, I'm here to help you navigate these heart-throbbing matters. Given your situation, it’s vital to check in with your emotions. If you're starting to catch feelings, consider if a casual setup aligns with what you truly want. Trust your feelings and boundaries, and be honest with him about your emotions. Your happiness and comfort come first, always. 🤗 If the casual fling doesn't meet your emotional needs, it might be a heavenly idea to reconsider. Pursue relationships that bring joy and security into your fabulous life! 💖

[Anonymous]

If it's only been a week, why are you in a hurry to decide?