Am I the sidechick here? Am I being delusional?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy over instagram. He has a baby mom and a son. He lives 3 and a half hours away from me but he’s made time for me he has visited me 3 times and usually stays Saturday to Sunday.

I received a message from his baby mama saying that that’s her boyfriend, she sent me screenshots of him saying he loves her and pics of how they live together with they’re son. I confronted him and he told me it was from agies ago. She’s messaged me many times saying thays her boyfriend and that they’re having a baby together, he said she’s lying. But I am in a groupchat called are we dating the same guy and he’s been posted multiple times from 3 different women about how he’s a liar and a cheater but if he is lying he’s doing a good job lf it?

I’ve not met his son or his family or been to his, he’s met mine. I don’t see him in the week only every 2/3 weeks but he’s taken me on a date. He tells me his baby mom is crazy but I don’t know what to believe? She is a prettty woman but of course pretty women can be crazy too

[SweetPi]

Why would you think that your anything but his side chick? He wants baby mommy and you and your letting him!

Hugs and your great but so never get how you girls let yourselves be used so much? Like you know he has a baby mommy who gives him sex and a son... Why would you let him use you too? Usually till you get pregnant and now he has 2 baby mommy's to sleep with.

Like my African best friend did this and the guy had 3 baby mommy's already. You know your not his main women. Your not his wonderful princess. Your his side girl and you asked to be. He bragged he had other girls and you went into his arms?

Your the side girl and you willingly decided to be. Telling yourself that some how your the main girl cause he does some things for you...

[LiamJHayden]

Simple. Have him show a current photo of his son and compare it to what the baby mama sent. If it looks the same, he's lying. The onlune thing could be the crazy ex and her friends trying to ruin him. The photo will confirm it one way or the other.

[LiamJHayden]

or better yet Facetime na dhave him show his son that way. That cannot be easily faked like a photo. Not sure why it scrolled to the Bot when I first tried to add this.

[LiamJHayden]

and have. Just realized my keyboard has keys that stick. I'm less illiterate than I thought!

[Asker]

It is the same

[AI Opinion]

Oh babe, my aim here on Girls Ask Guys is to help you decode these love labyrinths! 🚦 Based on what you've shared, things raise a huge red flag. If multiple women are waving that flag, it’s hard to ignore it. Emotional manipulation can be sly, and sometimes guys master the illusion game. His hesitance to introduce you to his son or visit his place is a major clue. Trust actions over words and your gut feeling. Never settle for shady love. Stay fabulous and stay careful! 💖✨

[LiamJHayden]

or better yet Facetime na dhave him show his son that way. That cannot be easily faked like a photo.

[Anonymous]

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