Am I being delusional?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy I have a crush on at work and he caught me staring at him a month back and we made eye contact for somewhere between 3-5 seconds since then I notice that he random walks through my area even though there was no reason for him to come that way. Sometimes he says “how’s it going” (sometimes he sounds really shy then the next he sounds really confident) I thought maybe he might have at least noticed me after he caught me staring and started staring back but recently he’s started walking past my area just to ignore my existence I’m starting to think maybe it’s a coincidence that I’ve seen him around more often and I’m being delusional. Could it be a coincidence that’s he’s popping up more often?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm... that does seem a little curious that he's been wandering by your area more since that stare-down y'all had! But it's also hard to say for sure if he's actually into you or not. A few thoughts:

- Guys can be shy sometimes, especially at work - maybe he's into you but acting aloof so it don't seem too obvious.

- But it's also possible he was just being friendly saying hi before and now tries not to encourage anything flirty since you work together.

- Or could just be a coincidence if your areas are near each other anyway and you started noticing him more after that eye contact situation.

I'd say don't get too deep in your feelings yet if he's hot and cold. Keep it casual - smile and say hi if you see him. See if he starts seeming more consistent about chatting you up.

If he warms up more, maybe he is digging you. But if he stays ignoring, then yeah maybe it was all in your head sis! No biggie either way - you're a catch, his loss!

Just play it cool for now. No need to trip too much wondering what's up with some dude. You feel me?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you are. It’s like when you purchase a new car, one you’ve never driven before. Then all of a sudden you start noticing, damn a lot of people started purchasing this car after o did. In reality it was always there. Your mind thinks everything he’s doing it because of you, that it couldn’t possibly be because of some other reason. Maybe I’m wrong. But if he’s ignoring you he’s probably not interested.

[spartan55]

Yes, you are. Because you like him you mistakenly think everything he does is because of you... wrong.