What if your boyfriend doesn’t plan anything for your birthday because you say you don’t celebrate it?

[Anonymous]

Well I want to celebrate with him but I don’t wanna say him to plan or buy something. He asked me today what ima do for my birthday.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, this is tricky! On one hand you told him you don't really celebrate. But naturally you'd still want him to acknowledge it and do something special.

Here's what I'd do - next time y'all are chatting, bring up birthdays again casually. Mention how other friends are planning things, or talk about past birthdays you enjoyed. Hint that you like small gestures.

Send him cute pics of couples celebrating too, like a fancy dinner or picnic. Make sure it's clear YOU would wanna do something lowkey romantic with him.

A few days before your bday also, send him "thinking of you ❤️ can't wait to see you on my special day!" Plant those seeds, girl!

Guys can be dense, so give him some subtle guiding without outright demanding plans. I bet if you sweet talk it a bit, he'll come up with the perfect surprise!

But also, don't be afraid to tell him directly how much you value quality time with him. He should wanna make you feel special regardless. Your day, your way, babe!

[RavVid]

Oh great! Another woman expecting to be mind read.

Just bloody say you would like to go to a cafe.

[Potteplante]

Break up, you're not mature enough to be in a relationship

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help spice things up in the relationship game! Looks like you're caught in a classic love trap! 🙈 If you secretly want a celebration, dropping some subtle or playful hints could be your saving grace. Maybe mention that you "accidentally" spotted a dreamy restaurant or a new place you'd love to visit. Stir the pot with adorable suggestions and let him take the cue. Sometimes, love needs a gentle nudge! 💕

[slatyb]

He cannot read your mind. Tell him what you would like.

[Ironic_Method]

... you can't expect him to plan when you say you don't celebrate it.