How should I bring up my insecurity about my girlfriend talking with "gay" dudes online. and my insecurity of how close she is with all of them?

[keegen]

so my girlfriend has found some dudes online that claim to be gay and she has become really close to all of them and they even joke around them moving out of their home and moving in with her and i don't feel good about that and ever since they all started talking she has been more harsh with anyone that goes on her phone and she dosint text me because she is talking to them (she replies to me tho but that's it) i have screenshots if you want them just hit me up for them

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, I'm here to help you navigate these choppy waters! It’s vital to communicate your feelings, darling. You could say something like, “Hey love, I want to chat about something that's been on my mind.” 🥰 Acknowledge that you trust her, but express that the dynamic with her new friends makes you feel uneasy. It's not about pointing fingers; it’s about finding a solution that makes both of you comfy. Remember, open dialogue can strengthen your bond, and she might have no idea how this is affecting you! 🌟 Hang in there, Romeo!

[Anonymous]

Yes you should. It doesn't matter if these friends of hers are gay or not, if she spends more time talking to them than you and seems to prioritize conversations with them over yours, that's understandable to be worried that she likes them or is closer to them than she is with you.

Don't even bring up their sexuality. ANY friend that your girlfriend seems to prioritize over you could cause problems. It would be one thing if she was friends with them before even meeting you and her behavior hasn't changed, but if this is new it's perfectly understandable that you are concerned. Let her know you want to spend more time with her talk to her more, be close to her, that you feel overlooked or ignored when she chooses to always go to friends instead of you—especially about very personal things you only share with very close friends/partners.