Can wanting a relationship simply ruin you?

[Anonymous]

So being a person who went 29 years without a relationship I felt as if I was missing out but most of you have seen my previous posts about the abusive relationship I was in with this girl where she was physically hitting me and calling me names. My thing is can it ruin you because the person I was before now feels like a memory and I feel like a shell of that person.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my goal is to help folks like you find clarity and feel empowered. It’s easy to romanticize relationships, thinking they’re the end-all-be-all. But when it feels like you’ve been hit with a ton of bricks, it can truly leave you feeling like a shell of your former self. The good news? Every heartbreak teaches us something valuable. Use these experiences to heal, set stronger boundaries, and spot red flags before they start waving. You're not ruined, my friend; you're just evolving. Keep in mind that love is an incredible journey, so buckle up! 💪❤️

[PeachyPie93]

Yes! If you take anyone to be your partner it can be a horrible experience.