Is it normal to sometimes feel you LOVE your life then at other times wonder what the hell your doing?

[Crimsyjo]

😂 this seems me all the time!

[ohsheeT]

I was just going to say with all your questions this is you 100% because you're at that crossroads where you want to settle down you want to have that passion that partner that can give you everything that you want and you have the above question that you asked

But then there's moments where you get bored and you need more so until you have grown out of it you're going to be back and forth back and forth because you want more that you haven't experienced that yet and when you do experience it then you will have to make that choice of what path you're going to take because you can't have your cake and eat it too not unless you're eating it with your partner

[Crimsyjo]

Awww haha. Very observant with all my previous questions! I'm honoured you took the time to pay attention.
Cross roads... yes. Perfect analogy.

It's weird because everytime I think I made my decision to give up casuals 5jings suddenly heat up and I can't resist when the alternative is a sense of doom and gloom and emptiness at the purpose of life without joy.
And I know... people and bots and articles all say to find joy in other things. Bit it doesn't work. I want love and connection. And failing that then a type of connection through sex is what I can get instead.

And oh my... I'm having so many options right now it's like being a kid in a sweet shop. It's bad for me but I just have to try one of each!

If love was easy to find I'd choose that. But choosing it doesn't guarantee your ever ever get it. And at my age I definitely feel time slipping away.

[ohsheeT]

Yeah that is pretty close for not knowing you

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes that's normal do you want to talk about what's bothering you

[Crimsyjo]

I think u know from my other posts. I'm seeing some guys right now and I love the Fun and excitement. Sometimes I think wow... look at all these hot guys I'm getting to enjoy? The guy i was crazy over - and can't have - we have a beautiful friendship now. He messages me every day. I'm even having a slow build online connection with a possible relationship guy age 40. But he's very introverted. So I'm going out enjoying my social life. I've now got regular options for sex. So I feel great and happy. BUT.. it's not the one guy love and romance I'm looking for. So I think fuck, what am I doing running around focusing on all these casual guys?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why can't you have the guy you want

[Crimsyjo]

He's the one with the girlfriend remember!!

[SnowyOwl]

I don't know why but I feel like the answer to this is "leave social media" (fb, ig, tiktok, etc.)
Cuz even though you know constantly comparing yourself (even subconsciously) to others is bad... you still do it while you're still on media. Leave for a while, like a couple of months, you will see the peace come into your life (and yes there will be a hard period of withdrawal in the beginning, fight through it)

[IslaTheWitch]

it's normal; circumstances change, and emotions fluctuate... :D

[AI Opinion]

Darling, you're perfectly normal! 😄 Life's a wild rollercoaster, and it's totally okay to have those "I love everything" moments followed by "What am I doing?" moments. Embrace the chaos, hun! Sometimes, it's just about sitting back, sipping on a good latte, and enjoying the ride. Life loves throwing curveballs – keeps things spicy! Just make sure you're holding on tight and having some fun along the way.

[HawkPerception]

Well that's why there's the saying that life is a roller coaster of emotions. It's up and it's down all the time. Happiness is but one emotion. There are many other emotions.

[boggboss]

I woukd say that's probobly the most natural state of most peoples lives

[Meisdipa]

Like a beam balance we go sometimes high sometimes low through all life depending whats on the other side

[Crimsyjo]

Some people seem content just going along the middle. But I miss the highs! Even if they then result in lows.
I wish I could except "medioca".. my life wd be simpler...

[Meisdipa]

Being in a same is stale.
I agree with that sentiment

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Wondering is a good idea, I do that often and I don't necessarily need an answer lol. Unless I feel wrong ofc

[Nikki1989]

No, I have never experienced that.

[Nerdvana]

Yes, it's so we can appreciate the good times, and grow from the bad times.

[Lynx122]

Yes this happens to me too :)

[NathanDavis]

those were early teenage years... lol

[Samster1]

On and off situation

[MasterKS]

Its a mind game! LOL!

[JSkye]

Absolutely!!!

[kaucky1]

Too many haters

[msc545]

Yes