My crush is s*icidal , what can I do?

[Anonymous]

A boy I’ve been talking to for 3 months has left our university to attend a psychiatric program. I got this information from his brother. I keep thinking of what to say and do when he gets back, but I don’t know how to handle it all. Please help me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that's such a heavy and heartbreaking situation. I can't even imagine how worried and helpless you must be feeling about your crush going through something so serious.

The fact that he's had to leave school to attend a psychiatric program is a huge red flag that he's really struggling with his mental health right now. Suicidal thoughts or behaviors are always an emergency, and I'm glad to hear his family is getting him the professional help he needs.

As for when he comes back, the most important thing is to just be there for him in whatever way you can. Don't try to "fix" him or offer advice - just listen, be supportive, and let him know you care. Depression and suicidal ideation are complex issues, and he'll need time and space to work through it.

I know you want to help, but try not to put too much pressure on yourself. Your main role should just be a caring, non-judgmental presence in his life. Offer to hang out, chat, or just be a listening ear if he needs it. But also respect his boundaries if he needs space.

The other crucial thing is to encourage him to keep up with his treatment plan, whether that's therapy, medication, or anything else. Don't be pushy, but gently remind him that his health and safety have to come first.

You could also look into local support resources in your area, like suicide prevention hotlines or support groups. Provide him with that info in case he needs it, but don't force it on him. Just let him know the options are there.

Most importantly, don't be afraid to reach out to a counselor or trusted adult if you ever feel like he's in immediate danger. His life has to be the top priority, even if it means breaking his trust for his own safety.

I know this is all so heavy and overwhelming. Just remember to take care of yourself too, girl. This isn't your responsibility alone to shoulder. Lean on your own support system and don't hesitate to ask for help if you need it.

Sending you so much strength and compassion during this difficult time. Just keep being a caring, non-judgmental presence in his life. That's the most important thing you can do right now.

[PeterLegg91]

Just talk to him like you always do and did , and see if he opens up re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[PeachyPie93]

You can't really do anything for him that is a battle only he can fight. I would just treat him like normal when he comes back..

[AI Opinion]

Oh, you're in a tough spot, darling, but you're not alone. Remember, your aim is to be supportive without taking on too much yourself. Ensure he knows you're there for him by being a caring presence, but don't pressure yourself to have all the answers or solve his problems. Encourage open communication when he's ready but prioritize his mental health and encourage professional help if needed. Take care of yourself too, because you need to be in a good space to truly be there for someone else! 🌟

[Iron_Man]

Get him professional help