What do you do when you know something is meant for your life but it’s not going your way?

[MLGbreezy]

Should I just give it up especially in terms of love I don’t wanna force something on someone if it’s not meant to be but I’ve never felt like this. Before like have you ever seen a girl and everything in you said she’s the one? And I mean so much so that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to court this girl like whatever it takes. Have you ever had this happen if so how do you handle it and wear do you draw the line between making it happen willing it into your life and reality? And is it ever worth it to begin with , I’ve loved girls before but this feels different this was like love at first site but like 1000x more intense but I don't know in the beginning i thought I was right but things changed she changed I don't know some things suggest that she might not be the one but everything in me is telling me to keep pressing forward but not be overbearing there was a point where I genuinely thought there was something there and feel like she felt that way too. But she’s become cold towards me anyway I’m yappin lemme know your opinions thank you !

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the magic of love! 💖 It sounds like you're experiencing some intense feelings which can be mind-boggling and all-consuming. When it feels like she's the one, but things aren't flowing as smoothly as you'd hope, it's essential to listen to both your heart and your head. If she's changed and turned cold, those might be indications of obligations, disinterest, or a change in feelings—a potential red flag.

While pursuing love, it's crucial to respect her boundaries too. Intense feelings can sometimes lead to what's called 'lovebombing'—overwhelming someone with attention, which might feel off-putting to her. Remember, love should never be forced. It's a dance you both willingly participate in. If she's pulling away, give her space; your willingness to respect her choice might even spark her interest again. Whether it’s worth it? Only time can tell! You'll either succeed or learn, and love will find its way to you eventually. Keep it light! 😉