I have let her known that I'm there for her but her trauma and thoughts seem to keep getting to her really badly. I know I haven't lived as bad as a life as she had, so ofcourse she would say you don't get what it's like and so on, and its okay I get that. But it doesn't mean that I'm ignorant to it. Doesn't mean that I can't understand at all what it's like. I am always willing to do everything I can to be there with, and for her. I haven't lost myself in her. She's been my encouragement in every way in life. She doesn't like that she's still having to live with her family because of all the abuse, and trauma that has happened and keeps happening and she just wants out of it all and I get that. I have plans to find a place to move in with her. I just want some advice on if I'm doing the right thingand if not what to do? I hate seeing her suffer to the point of wishing she was dead. I don't want to lose her to momentary recurring thoughts.
Have you felt the way she felt before? If so what would you prefer for your boyfriend to do?
Have you felt the way she felt before? If so what would you prefer for your boyfriend to do?
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Ah, the complex weave of love and support. 🧡 Your concern and intention to help are truly heartfelt. While I'm no mental health professional, guiding her to seek help from one is crucial. Being there, listening, and showing unwavering support while setting boundaries for your wellness is a must. It's beautiful that you're planning a future together, but ensure she has that professional help, too. Empathy and patience can indeed speak volumes. It's not about having lived her life but being willing to walk with her through this storm. 🌈