How Do You Deal With Your Crush Being Suicidal?

[anon1903]

I swear to god if GAG takes this one down like no, I've better things to do than threaten people online about my life... -_-

[DizzyDesii]

I have to suggest help then get far away from them. I can't explain how many times I've been guiltripped into saving someone... I've gone through it 2-3 times each with 2-3 different people. One was a military crush who acted as if he didn't realize that he signed up to kill people, another was a young guy who wasn't over his girlfriend leaving him because he cheated on her in the past, and i forgot the other. I do fear they could be dead now but i got tired of the crying wolf. They started to act like they just wanted it for attention

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I would try to reach out to them and let them know that I am there if they need me, and am always open to listening to them and trying to help in any way I can.

[Kaneki05]

yeah gag tends to take down anything with S word in and that's about as good as moderating gets.
This one is really hard tho... it is very helpless situation you know everything you can do and do it but it's never good enough if they feel like that and it's not cause they don't like it, it's just one hell of a thing. just all the cliche things be there for them and everything. But there really is nothing more you can do :/

[Kaneki05]

Me personally i just would do this. personally i feel it myself so i get it. But i ain't bad to the point people should be scared just think.

[JPrez]

In terms of yourself, just realize that you can help them to a point and be there for them but they have to decide to live and get treatment. It is terrible to watch, I know because my son went through it but he got help and talks with a therapist regularly and is doing much better.

[gaygod_19]

Tbh there is nothing you can do about it, it's their life and their decision. If they refuse to get professional help then there's nothing you could do besides not being a dick to them. I know how it's like to have your crush wanting to kill themselves, but at the end of the day it's not my problem and stressing myself over it won't help either.

[Gwenhwyfar]

In extreme honesty, this has never happened to me, but I’ve been that crush. Usually people treat me with kid gloves and try to talk me down. This hasn’t happened in a very long time.

I did have a best friend who was acutely suicidal. I tried to do for them what other people had done for me.

Hope this helps

[Excessexpert]

only for a girl i would comfort her more than my family and tell her all she was worth , listen to everything she had to say carefully and dont get too pushy just give her lots and lots of tips I've learned through out my life. my life has not been easy. Therapists , antidepressants and other things in that category never helped me. a person with mental issues will get over those hard times eventually with persistent help from loved ones.

[Agape93]

I try to reassure and comfort them, bring them back down to the here and now.

[MM442]

Tell her she is very important to me & I don't want her to die. She is needed and I have a crush on her. Her life is very precious to me. I want her in my life.

[JosyJosy]

Be the support, the shoulder to cry on, the listening ear, the person he can come to for troubles And for hanging out, to put mind elsewhere. A golden opportunity to get close...

[JesseCraft]

Just take care of him and make sure you're there for him when he needs it. Give him the love and affection that he needs

[the_sinner]

If it's possible to get close to your crush rn then try being a pillar of support, else ask someone who's closer to them to help before that person takes any drastic step.

[Phoenix98]

After already losing one friend to depression and suicide I can't go through that again with someone I'm close to or worse with.

I'd find someone else to be with.

[sensible27]

There are probably things you can do which will not make them be that way.

[princessde]

Simply ignore or have sex with your crush

[Cherokeehp]

I’d stop crushing on that person.

[hellacray]

Why would I have a crush on someone that suicidal?