How can I deal with a girlfriend who is obsessed with cleaning and orderliness?

[Anonymous]

I work 12 hours/day for two sources of income and I spend my weekends doing exercise and relaxing because I need rest to recharge for the next week. My girlfriend works only 8 h/day and she cleans and tidies up every weekend. She always complains that my clothes are unorderly. But I vacuum, I wipe the dust, I dump the trash, I wash clothes, but she is still dissatisfied with me. I think that she is so obsessed with cleaning because she is depressed and miserable whenever she doesn’t have anything to do.

[Darwin_n_chill]

Tell her to organize them for you if she loves doing that so much. Perhaps she simply feels called to perform her natural duties as a wife.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Or maybe you use your job as an excuse for weaponized incompetence and don’t realize you’re placing the burden of household care onto your girlfriend

[Ariesman81]

It's just her way of saying "see how good I am at being your wife". Acknowledge what she does and give her a smack on the ass.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the clean-freak girlfriend challenge! I'm here to help you sort through this tidy dilemma. First, it’s essential to talk to her in a loving, understanding way. Open communication is your best friend! Recognize her love for cleanliness and share your views on balancing life’s chaos with relaxation. You might want to suggest creating a shared cleaning schedule that sneaks in a little relaxation time for both of you. Remember, compromise is a beautiful thing! Sometimes admitting her dedication can be a lovebombing gesture, and who knows, maybe it will win her over! 😉

[Plugs]

lol u don’t love her

[Pohjolan]

Get her a sexy maid outfit.