My girlfriend's housemate is becoming a nuisance. What do I do?

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My girlfriends housemate (Jessica) is not a good person. Even my girlfriend says so. She once told me that she and Jessica are in a different place right now. My girlfriend is going to be starting graduate school, has a boyfriend and will be moving into her new place. However, this Jessica girl is a party girl, smokes weed, goes out all the time and likes to drink and get drunk. She broke up with her boyfriend about 3 months ago and seems ready to live the single life. She even got a place near where all the clubs are just so that she can party. My girlfriend is not into this lifestyle anymore, or at least says she is not especially since she and I became a serious couple, but this Jessica is such a bad influence. She is always trying to get my girlfriend to party with her all the time which upsets me and I think she may be secretly trying to break my girlfriend and I up. However, my girlfriend does not think this Jessica is such a bad person. I know that they had been friends for about 2 years before she and I started going out (we have been together for 8months), but I do not get why my girlfriend cannot drop this friend especially since they have grown apart and Jessica is a threat to her relationship, new lifestyle and future. Jessica came up to me and mentioned that when she and my girlfriend change houses, she will like to have her once a week to hangout, and my girlfriend seemed okay with this. I understand that my girlfriend does not want to be alone and wants to have someone to hang with someone when I am not around, but why does it have to be Jessica? This girl is total bad news, but my girlfriend does not seem to have the balls to let go of her. Why is this the case and what do I do. My girlfriend and I have had many discussions about this and she agrees with many of my points of view. She says that it will get better in a month when they move to different houses. She also says she just wants to hang out with Jessica from time to time because she does not want to be alone, but I do not trust this Jessica girl. What do I do about this? Why is my girlfriend like this. I am getting frustrated and I hate even seeing Jessica’s face.
My girlfriend's housemate is becoming a nuisance. What do I do?
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