girlfriend roommate won't mind her own business what should we do about it?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend moved in with her friend since her friend really needed the extra money.
I come and vist my girlfriend from time to time but everytime i do her roommate has something to say. Today her friend for the 2nd time is telling my girlfriend she should make me get a 2nd job and pay all of my girlfriend bills for her, my girlfriend friend also believes i have been using my girlfriend for money yet i haven't ever asked or taken any money for my girlfriend. My girlfriend roommate tried telling my girlfriend as will that she doesn't want me coming over anymore till i get a 2nd job and pay my girlfriend bills who i don't even live with. I feel like her friend needs to mind her own fucking business and stay out of both of are life's. I already help my girlfriend with food and since I'll be moving in with her am now helping with rent. My girlfriend is very independent and loves working 2 jobs she hate staying in 1 place. I am a nursing students and work as a cook so i known am heading down the right path.

[jack187625]

Take the room mate to one side and find out why she is doing this, point out your situation amongst other things and politely point out that her input into your relationship isn't required or wanted without either one of you asking first.

[Asker]

She's doing this because she feels Becuase i have a dick that's my job. Her friend takes advantage of all of her male friends who she's not even dating or having sex with. 1. Friend is buying her a new laptop for free another friend is fixing everything in her house for free and worse of all whenever she's hanging out with male friends she makes them pay for everything.

[Asker]

Am currently not in school right now but i find out away to get my schooling paid for for free. So am meeting with someone on the 15 signing paperwork then am in school for free. Why would i pay for school myself if i can get it for free. Its only been 2 months since i find out about Acess vr the people paying for my school

[jack187625]

Then inform her that you have no respect for her as she can pay her own way. Maybe she should get another job if she can't afford the rent or a new laptop for herself. Just because she does it doesn't mean everyone else has to.

[Asker]

She can afford it herself since she works 14 hours days... She just a bitch and feels becuase she has a pussy people should do things for her. She pays 3k in rent gos out to eat everyday and turns down really good paying jobs if they make her do anything she dislikes

[jack187625]

Then just tell her you have different views, it is affecting your relationship and it is someone you care about, if she cares about your other half then she is also upsetting her.

[Asker]

Yea she's pissing my girlfriend off...2nd time my girlfriend told her off in the pass month since she wouldn't shut up about it. My girlfriend told her i moved out of my parents house to do what i want, your my landlord not my mom so act like it

[jack187625]

Of she keeps pushing it, see if your SO wants to move out, that isn't a comfortable relationship to be in.

[Asker]

We are gone see if she stops if she brings it up agin my girlfriend gonna tell her she moving out.

[jack187625]

That's the best solution, either that or petty revenge

[Asker]

Lol my girlfriend loves petty revenge

[jack187625]

Well if you want petty revenge ideas, let me know!

[Asker]

Lol u gotta ask my girl on that one... I dont really do petty stuff. Am very respectful

[jack187625]

Good man! I don't but it's sometimes fun to come up with scenarios!

[Asker]

Dump her choclate all over something car

[dinhuhisserved]

Tell her she needs to stop being a hypocrite and then say mind her own business. If I needed your advice I would ask you and if my girl needs anything that's something me and her would talk about which doesn't involve your input.

[zagor]

Your girlfriend needs to tell her to mind her own business. It sounds like the friend doesn't have much of a life and is trying to nose into your gf's.

[alec0719]

she just wants you to pay her bills. just tell her to shut up. she wants to control everyone.

[Asker]

Pretty much my girlfriend always pays rent on time, but her friend who is a 60 year old women borrows money fron my girlfriend only to end up having to pay it back lol

[timesaver573]

Just tell her to mind her business or tell her to move out

[Davidx1]

Tell her to screw off, you should never need to pay anyone else's bills unless you want to

[Asker]

That's my plan, my girlfriend is happy with the way things are so why should we change our life's for her friend? My girlfriend is going back to school in aug. So once she back in school I'll be paying the bills which is what we argued on since i want my girlfriend to focus on school

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Wow, what a bitch

[Asker]

Steal my friend

[Asker]

Words

[Reincarnated_sóul]

Give her a good fucking.

[Asker]

Lol why

[Reincarnated_sóul]

Simply

[Asker]

Lol she 56

[Reincarnated_sóul]

Never mind it then..😓