Have you ever screwed up a friends with benefits relationship?

[Bricealan]

I have, because I was too stupid or indoctrinated in that kind of relationship to know how to handle it. Guess that comes with experience. Then again, I feel that a friends with benefits relationship will ultimately develop into something more.

Anyone have that kind of experience and ultimately mess it up for some reason?

[Finchie40]

I screwed up my first one because I was being selfish , she wanted more with me , but I was blind to it and started dating another girl , by the time I realized I wanted her instead, she moved on

[Bricealan]

@Finchie40 Sounds similar

[Finchie40]

It was kind of her fault as well , because she didn’t speak up , some females’ act like we are fucking mind readers , I just assumed she liked being FWB’s which the only way I will be FWB’s with a girl is if we both agree to only have sex with each other but ok for us to date others’ if we choose to , if we choose to sleep with someone else , we promise to end the benefits part between us and just remain friends , so the other girl I started dating I wasn’t having sex with , but she just assumed I was , again thinking I could read her mind , she just decided to stop answering my phone calls and pretty much Ghosted me , I eventually ran into her like a month later and asked her what her deal was and she confessed she was jealous I met someone else , I said ummm didn’t we agree on this? I didn’t sleep with her but I did after You ghosted my ass lol. I was hurt because I really did like her and I would of loved being in a relationship with her if she opened her damn mouth , but she was dating another guy when I ran into her and I said I guess we fucked yo

[Finchie40]

Up my bad

[BoobMan]

How'd you mess it up? This should be one of the easier relationships to get right, no?

[Bricealan]

Yes it should be, and I was too stupid and selfish at the time to be as GIVING with oral sex as she was and she grew to really hate me and cut all ties with me after that.

[PeachyPie93]

No, I catch feelings way too easily especially when sex is involved. So I would not try this.
But how did you mess it up? Isn't it just NSA sex?

[Bricealan]

@PeachyPie93 m Should be easy, yes, but at the time, she was a girl I worked with, and she was very generous with giving oral sex and when it came my turn to eat her, I didn't do it, and i it embarrassing to describe here, WHY I didn't. I fucked her instead, and based on my selfish act, she really resented and actually hated me from that time on.

[PeachyPie93]

I guess that makes sense.. though I suppose its too bad you two couldn't work it out

[Bricealan]

@PeachyPie93 I guess I can tell you, and perhaps you will understand better, although I regret it to this day. When it came my time to go down on her, she had very, very prolapsed labia that protruded out and overlapped the outer labia, and it left me stunned and honestly, destroyed the moment. The only way I can describe it, would be if you had never seen an uncircumcised penis, with all of that foreskin over the head, and it looked too unpleasant to put your mouth on. That was my predicament, and I hope I did not gross you out by saying that.
At the time, she did not voice her anger, but at work she smeared me in the department, by repeating a lie I had told her about the bosses's secretary. Really was a nightmare for me from that point on. Looking back, I always thought about what else I might have done differently other than eating her right then... Selfish, I know.
Hopefully not too graphic. I apologize if it was

[PeachyPie93]

Nah thats fine.. Thanks for sharing. I'm not sure what could of been done differently.. besides just closing your eyes and giving it a go LOL But I suppose its in the past and hopefully you don't still work with her..

[Bricealan]

@PeachyPie93 👍😊

[Nikki1989]

No, there is very little to screw up. That is the appeal of having a friends with benefits.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic friends with benefits conundrum! Navigating those waters can feel like dancing on a tightrope. 🕺 It sounds like you learned the importance of setting boundaries and clear expectations early on, but hey, we all slip sometimes! It's easy to catch feelings—those pesky love hormones get the best of us. 😜 Remember, if it evolves into something more, it’s not necessarily a screw-up but rather a sweet twist in fate. Keep learning and loving! 🌟

[mandyfire98]

I personally haven't.

[Account]

I never had one and I would not want one.

[Bricealan]

I didn't ask that

[Account]

Doesn't matter. 👍🏻🤷🏻‍♀️

[Bricealan]

I only asked for those that had a friends with benefits?

[NathanDavis]

I have not had one of those

[MikeTheBartender]

All the fucking time.

[LiamJHayden]

I do not do friends with benefits.

[robocop666]

yes I have and I am sorry I did