Has anyone ever ruined your relationship?

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So different women like his exes made up stories about my boyfriend having his baby and that the sex was the best with them. Asking me when me and him started talking. Just two of them did it and it's getting on my nerves. I saw one in the car at walmart sitting with her friend and I saw them staring and laughing at me. I threatened to call the police on the one about a fake baby. The other one with her friend, tried to send me a friend request to look at my stories and I had random people I didn't know stalking my stories. It's getting on my nerves he just tells me to block them but this harassment makes me want to leave...

Johnny017163 · Accepted Answer

It was this boy named Kevin I known him since the 9th grade but we're not really close but look and I went out with this short girl she was disabled and she asked me out and she told me not to tell anyone about us dating but then maybe she must of ran her mouth to someone talking about she got a boyfriend bc Kevin said hey Johnny I found out y'all dating so either he must of snitched or she must of ran her mouth. Bc a principal pulled me out of class and said hey Johnny yk it's wrong to date a 14 year old girl bc I was 17 at the time, I mean it's not wrong but as long as there is no sex involved. But she was a little too much for me so I've moved on months ago and I'm trying to find the right girl who will love me for who I am. So that's my story right there and ladies and gentlemen please don't give up on relationships bc you never know who is out there that you will like so just keep trying and eventually you are going to be so happy you are dating someone who is kind and who is sweet.

BullShark · Accepted Answer

So, we weren't really in a proper relationship. We were both sixteen years old and classmates in high school. Now a little backstory on me, back as a teenager, I was a loser, really shy and very socially anxious. I'd fumble over my words, stammer a lot and couldn't really express myself. Then there was this classmate of mine who'd deliberately try his best to ruin my chances with her.

I knew this boy since the 2nd grade. We never really got on the right foot and hated each other's guts since we were kids. Now I'm not sure if he liked her back, but he tried his best to make matters worse for me, which included bullying me publicly and spilling my embarrassing moments to her. Luckily for me, she thought I was cute and laughed off most of it, but the damage was done and she never really saw me as "boyfriend material".

JordynJayne · Accepted Answer

So long story short, I met this man and we dated for a while. Basically lived together, and we both breathed motorcross. I did motocross for 15 years professional/recreationally. We had some issues towards the end like any other relationship did, and he turned around and decided to air all our dirty laundry in a meeting at AA. Well… he had over 40 people tell him what to do, and he got so messed up in the membrane. We went on a 50 mile long ride in the middle of the forest, and he LEFT ME THERE AFTER MY BIKE BROKE DOWN.

Literally had a whole search and rescue team on ATV’s/Bike’s, and a helicopter come searching for me. After 9 hours, it was pitch black, I was covered in piss, and borderlining hypothermia.

He broke up with me because he “physically fell out of love” with me.

God help me. LMFAO

TT1227 · Accepted Answer

Girl don’t leave because of them! That’s exactly what they want to happen! I’ve been in a very similar situation before so I get it. It’s frustrating. As hard as it is to ignore just block them like your boyfriend said. Act like they don’t exist. The more you react to it (not saying you are but IF you are) they will feed off of that. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Just stay strong and if this man is someone you want to continue to have a relationship with don’t let these jealous hoes ruin that for you! Best of luck!

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I was married to Lynn and she had a spoiled, selfish daughter who was 20 years old and still wanted to suck mommy's tit (figuratively, not literally.) I objected to her extreme dependence and her daughter created constant conflict that led Lynn to want a divorce. Ultmately, I hold Lynn responsible because her daughter could not break us up unless Lynn allowed that to happen.

Summeroflove · Answer

They’re disgusting and super jealous. They’re so upset that he moved on with someone better then herself.

He didn’t deserve them. They don’t have ANY right to be harassing you and you need to tell them to fuck off peacefully or you will pursue every legal action to protect yourself and your boyfriend.

These bitches feel they can get away with anything. These obsessed stalkers are gonna learn if they keep it up.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

There was a guy at my old church who pretended to like me because he wanted his sex partner to stalk, harass and possibly kill me out of jealousy and I do not consider him to be any different from a wife beater or rapist due to his attempt at indirect injury through fraud and social proxies. I think he is guilty of stalking and murder himself because he tried to convince his girlfriend to do it.

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, but it was very different than that

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

No girl is going to do all this unless they still have feelings for the guy. They trying to get in your head and make dating him as hard as possible. It seems to be working..

I'll be honest with you, unless you don't think it's worth the trouble anymore, don't mention to guy. you should be a le to manage the situation pretty easily without even needing to tell guy.

Configure cell phone to push unknown numbers to voicemail.
Block girls on socials or even better make it to where only you can add friends and make profile private.
If you see them, don't even look at them just keep walking.
Keep evidence though of texts, messages , etc should it escalate to not just verbal.

Estaroze · Answer

Hmmm don't you think your boyfriend has to rectify it? The most important thing is your happiness, and your boyfriend is responsible for this situation, no matter how trivial the matter is in his perspective. Let him write some words through his social media about them bullying you or let him report the situation.

In my case, no one else could. Cause as long as him and I aren't the ones who control the relationship the most, it's not a romantic relationship. It'd be just some weak, not too meaningful, friendship kind of thingy.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Asami fucked my relationship with Natsumi, by telling her I was still seeing my ex Nabuko. The cheating or multi-woman having me was established but at some point, I was done with Nabuko and all these women knew about each other at the time and just accepted it. But once I was like done with one chick the other chick decided me getting back with that other chick just for sex was all of a sudden something to cry about. Basically, I briefly was done with Nabuko and Natsumi all of a sudden thought I was going to marry her. My life has been a shit show. I loved that girl, but you know... fuck fate is what it is. Not my problem.

mobiusforniner · Answer

My mother in law comes over when im at work for 10 hrs a day, tells my wife (her daughter) im a controlling and abusive man, tells my kids daddy does love them... i would come home from work to an angry wife and distrusting kids and not even know what i did wrong. The damage is irreversible with our first child. To this day he has no respect or value for me and turns to grandma whenever i try to discipline him for doing something wrong.

It took years for my wife to emotionally separate herself from her mom, create boundaries, and stand up for our family. We almost split.

Anonymous · Answer

I have had guys “cockblock” me from women I was interested in - sometimes girls trying to take me down (who knows why)… I had several friends ruin “friendships…”

I’ve had mom and dad embarrass me with female friends and ruin friendships.

But someone else interfering with a romance and ruining the relationship? Not that I know of. My first girlfriend, the dad HATED me (never met me. I was always the good kid). He tried his hardest, probably, but I don’t think he succeeded as much as the girl ruined things in her own by repeatedly cheating on me with practically anything that moved and had a pulse. I fully believe, though, that he screened her calls and e-mails and “conveniently deleted” them and never mentioned it. I have no question about that. But he wasn’t the cause of our breakup.

Anonymous · Answer

My former roommate/landlord was a bbw girl who was jealous over my thin/fit girlfriend. She kicked me and the other tenant out after living in a near perfect location for 3 years. It was next to the beach, decent rate, convenient, etc.

This put me under a ton of stress trying to find another location. That and coincidental problems at work caused me to take some of my anxiety out on my girlfriend. Of course I was wrong but it was a difficult time.

Can i blame this all on my former roommate. Not really. But she contributed to bringing misery into my life.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeahh, my parents, technically xD.

They didn't allow me to continue my relationship cos they said it'd disrupt me with my studies and my grades would drop down... So they made me broke up.

I'm not mad at them nor anything, I get why they think that. But it didn't make things easier either.

It was... Tragic, in its own way.

I just don't wanna know about dating for quite some time from now on, it was such a waste of time. Just made me feel rubbish and devastated at the end :((

admles · Answer

A friend of me ex. She told my ex I was cheating, because she saw me out to lunch with another woman - my cousin who I'd bumped into.

Instead of speaking to me she immediately sends photos to my ex, who immediately went off her nut about it, throwing stuff at me when I Saw her and abusing me.

I explained over and over again who she was, and she wouldn't listen so I just left, when she calmed down I sent her some pictures of my cousin and I at various stages in our life, and then I broke up with her.

Alexa41991 · Answer

In reality, the only person that can ruin my relationship is my partner or myself, because if he or I will go and react or listen to other people and we're going to let other people interfere in our relationship, then we shouldn't be together in the first place.

GreenLanternI0I · Answer

Many years ago my friend had a G. F. and his G. F. LOVED cock blocking me for pure sport, (and no she wasn't doing that, because she liked me) She was getting off on seeing me trying and getting very close in getting a G. F., but than at the last crucial moments she was jumping in and spreading pure lies about me.

lilly15345 · Answer

yes I have I told my toxic ex I had use a had a crush on a guy and he got jealous and my ex got jelous over me hanging out with a guy friend at school this is in 12 grade before I graduated and my toxic ex and his younger bother his younger bother me and him use too go too school together and he don’t old tell his bother who I’m talking too school and who I’m hanging out with and I told my toxic ex me and that guy I was talking too we were just friends and he would ask me if he was my boyfriend I keep on telling me and him we were just friends and he would act mad and jealous honestly that was on him 🤣

RavVid · Answer

I had a girlfriend of my girlfriend try to do that. She resented that our relationship interfered with her friendship. More than one girlfriend's girlfriends tried to separate us.

I think tell yourself that he is with you not them and laugh at them instead.

BJP21 · Answer

Some of my family did when I dated a Mexican girl. Out came the stereo types and racial slurs from a Conservative church going family. Ever since the remarks were made, my relationship with her wasn't the same anymore. I wanted my family to know, understand and like her. No amount of apologies from me could ever undo the damages that were inflicted on her.

OnlinePeanut22 · Answer

Yes, some girls in my college tried to become friends with me to try temp guys to cheat and they were successful. I broke up with guys that were cheaters. I also don't have many friends anymore. My college was a special learning disability. Girls also have learning disabilities. That has happened more than once while I was at college. I am not anymore since I am graduation from it. College is worst place to get inro a relationship. Too much drama.

Youryeodongsaeng · Answer

Yes. My girlfriend's mother. She's a Christian and so, that "going against her religion" made her mother wanting to move out of town. She even reported me as a pedophile. I was 13 and her daughter was 12.

JJMcc5049 · Answer

It happens all the time and I can't understand why people decide to ruin other people's relationships with lies and rumours unfortunately jealous people even friends both women and men do it. Unfortunately it shows that the person you care about is listening to those people and what does that say about them?

annabananna · Answer

Yea, my husbands ex wife did a lot of things to break us up. Too many to name but one example is her calling his parents and telling them I’m a prostitute. Thankfully they know how bad of a liar she is that they just laughed at her.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

Honestly I’d stop dating him because either his messed with them. Or he has really bad sense of whether someone’s a good or bad person and that’s going to be true in friendships too.

redpanda_ · Answer

Yes. One of my exes. I'm so determined that they messaged a guy I was seeing as things were going incredibly well, then all of a sudden he ghosted me... 😔

YourFavoriteFriend · Answer

LMAO, NICE!!! Do them the favor and let them ruin your relationship! Because, why be a strong person when you can allow other people to play with your life?

ChattyGuy43 · Answer

I've never ruined any of my relationships, it's usually the female that ruins it by having a shag with an ex or just can't commit or money are some of the BS reasons for ruining it, I'm the commited one willing to give it a go.

LatinaTanya · Answer

Not exactly. I would say my ex was the one and only to ruined our relationship. I could blame excorts or female coworkers or dating apps but at the end it depends on him if he wants to cheat 🤷🏻‍♀️😅

Redhead1981 · Answer

I have experienced jealous people outside of my relationship. Just ignore them because the only opinions that should matter are of you and your boyfriend.

SnowedIn · Answer

Yes. Had a girl in high school say I was gay. My girlfriend broke up with me for that. Took a year before another girl took me seriously.

art84 · Answer

One of my friends in elementary school stopped talking to me in high school. We used to be friends and he would come to my birthday parties when younger. Guess we just drift apart and he got new friends and didn't want to hang out.

Revvl · Answer

No, but they've tried. Women are the worst of the worst.

Saltystardust · Answer

🙄My step brother has, but that's because he's a piece of trash.

pewter_moon · Answer

Take away their power. Stop reacting. It’s all they want.

CubsterShura · Answer

Only the people in a relationship ruin a relationship, not others.

TheNameIsRob · Answer

You leave they get what they want. Ignore them like he said. Keep giving them a reaction and they keep doing what they’re doing. Simple as that

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

People can only ruin what you have if someone doesn't keep their mouth shut. There's a chance he talks too damn much

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

My Ex told my now ex that she used to peg me which she did and she broke up with me because her last boyfriend cheated on her with men and she didn’t want to go through that again

Manuel2 · Answer

I am dealing with this problem now. 1-the father and brother 2-her friends 3-my family 4- jealous ex s using the vagina cliub to course problems

Raaj4you · Answer

Some jealous women have ruined my relationship with my parents. By god's grace we are still happy, no matter what or who? my parents can't hate me and I can't hate them. I love my parents.🥰

imbeingmyself · Answer

you want to leave your relationship which is going completely fine just because of some girls who tends to say shit behind his back? don't you think you should fight for your man and make them understand that they are dealing with wrong women.

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope, I have screwed up a few times, but it wasn't someone else.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Outside of the relationship between me and them, no.

ummi59 · Answer

Yes, one. A friend of mine who called my man and told him fake stories about me but not knowing to her that he trusted me.

Guardian45 · Answer

Hmmm. Where there's smoke; there's fire? My B! TCH-in-Law successfully sabotaged our marriage.

Anonymous · Answer

My mom ruins or tries to ruin any relationship I have that does not include her.

Anonymous · Answer

I was set up to marry in an arrangement from a specific family, but then someone deliberately ruined the relationship.

lorenagshi · Answer

Yes... a friend of mine would constantly tell me how cute my crush is and how they talk all the time to each other and when we got tg she would constantly ft him like?

Guy13 · Answer

No they have not.

Anonymous · Answer

Mine was ruined when my fiancé found out I was cheating with one of my coworkers. My coworker still hasn’t apologized for breaking up our happy engagement.

gary777 · Answer

yes! by pointing out my underwear. made me look pathetic

boobliker · Answer

yes, it's easy too. but say sorry and hopefully you can move on!

Likes2drive · Answer

Not really, I wouldn’t let them but I don’t have anyone at the moment

BLP11520 · Answer

No, but some were no help at the beginning of my marriage. Putting negative words in my wife's ears

Anonymous · Answer

Yes once this girl started being racist to me infront of my ex and I didn’t say anything. And my ex dumped me the next day

Neilbud · Answer

Yeah, their has always been someone who disapproved.

msc545 · Answer

Yes, that happened once but certainly not in the way you describe.

dudewithnoname · Answer

I've had some people try to plant seeds in my head to ruin what i had

NIGHTCAT12 · Answer

Yes at first I thought it was me but no I just couldn't make her happy

panamared1 · Answer

if other people messed it up, it could not have been that strong to start with

_Stephen27_ · Answer

Have yet to be in a romantic relationship but for other relationships, myself

Anonymous · Answer

No outsider can break a relationship until either partner in relationship gives up to their bait

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