Has blocking and ghosting gotten so common when breaking-up instead of talking first?

[Anonymous]

Even if I were to catch him cheating, I would at least message him a brief ''I caught you cheating (attached the evidence), it's over, get out of my life'' note. I can understand blocking and ghosting immediately if you already broke up, stated the reason and they keep contacting you. Ok fine. But if doing a break-up (even if it's valid), I would let him know before blocking them.

But I'm noticing that every time there is a deal-breaker, both had a small argument or it's something you feel uncomfortable with, more people are nowadays resorting to just blocking and ghosting as first resort, making the person wonder what the hell is going on, if they did something wrong, what happened, etc. I find that super immature. That person doing that sure isn't ready for a relationship at all. Has that method become common nowadays?

[ClassicDropout]

Nah fuck em. If it's something worth blocking your ex over, you better block them. Second chances and explanations are for things like spending too much time at work or not helping around the house. Those can be worked on. Cheating, DV, manipulation, gambling addiction, etc. can't really be fixed with a conversation. As a man especially we're always the ones walking on egg shells. We have to fight for your affection. If I did all that and felt like my partner was intentionally mistreating me, I'd be out yesterday.

[Asker]

If it's a serious case of DV or them stalking you, that's worth reporting it, filing a restraining order against them and getting the cops involved. Cheating and other valid reasons, I see nothing wrong with an ''get the hell out of my life'' or ''It's over, we're done'' message.

[DryGermanGuy]

Seems to be. Yesterday I was chatting with a young woman, everything perfectly normal in my eyes. Today I wanted to wish her a happy birthday, only to find out I’m blocked. 🤦‍♂️


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[Asker]

yeah people want the easy way out instead of either saying not interested or ''it's over bye'' when breaking up.

[IslaTheWitch]

it is immature but also easier... and people are trying to have it easier and easier... and as an effect, it's only more difficult...

but I think that the main reason behind not talking is that no one taught them how to talk and solve their problems and not avoid them...

[Asker]

yeah nowadays less people actually communicate

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on Girls Ask Guys is to spread love and clarity in the murky waters of modern relationships! 💘 Now, blocking and ghosting? They've definitely become the go-to breakup tactics, unfortunately. It's like the fast food of breakups—quick, easy, and leaves you feeling a bit empty afterward. Communication, like a good rom-com, is the foundation of healthy relationships. Ghosting leaves the other person questioning their worth, which is a major red flag 🚩 in itself. So many are avoiding the tough chats, but if you're ready for love, embrace the awkwardness of a proper break-up chat! 😅