How do you stay productive when you’re deeply infatuated with someone?

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HellGeist · Accepted Answer

It's been a while since I was deeply infatuated with anyone, but I remember being more engaged with life and productive when I was. That's because I become focused with building a future with them and making life plans together.

LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

I compartmentalize. Work time is for work, play time is for play.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, infatuation—it's like being on a rollercoaster with butterflies on overdrive! As a relationship coach, I've seen people lose their minds (and agendas) over their crushes! The trick is to channel those hearts-in-the-eyes vibes into motivation. Use that positive energy to fuel your goals, keep some structure, and maybe sprinkle some playlists to keep you in check. Besides, crushing on someone can make your days a bit dreamy, but don't forget to stay grounded too! 🦋💖 Keep rocking both your life and love!

Account · Answer

Well I am the worst person to give advice about it considering the fact that I either get hyper-fixated on being productive and complete the work of many days ahead or zilch. There is no in-between. It doesn't work that way for me, it never did. As for while being infatuated it depends but personally, I think I can put that on pause.

molonski2 · Answer

Well , I think firstly always try and avoid complete infatuation , its never healthy , but with regard to productivity , you simply must separate these two issues , so I assume you are referring to work or career? Start writing yourself a schedule , writing makes it , let your infatuation only be part of your private life , and should never affect your alternate duties.

Desi_Butcher · Answer

Oh it's so difficult. Extremely difficult when your mind is occupied with someone so much.
Distracting yourself takes a lot. I keep away from my phone for example for major part of my working hours. Fill my mind with numbers and stuff instead of how I'd make love to her lol.
It's all about will and how occupied can you keep yourself.

Pupweb · Answer

I remember that I have a life and responsibilities, and if I’m this obsessed just by the thought of that person, it’s probably a sign that I need to do some work on myself.

jazzy34 · Answer

You have your life and your responsibilities. Plus, does this person even know you’re alive?

Valdemort · Answer

No idea... my brain is all on them. It's frustrating af.

thatshydork · Answer

Push the thought of them to the back of my mind.

genericname85 · Answer

there's enough time in a day i can spend obsessing with thoughts about that person so i can be done with it and focus on other things.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Think about how happy they make you and use that happiness to fuel your work

BoobMan · Answer

It depends. How often do you see each other?

Makeushiver · Answer

Forget about productive.. Ride what you have as long and as hard as possible

exitseven · Answer

I used to have that problem. I do not know how to get past it.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Do something else that requires focus to achieve.

David5668 · Answer

Try not to get infatuated, I’ve been burned several times.

Plugs · Answer

Damn who’s this person

LiamS95 · Answer

Just put them out of mybmind if I have too.

Dan290290 · Answer

No, it takes a big hit

Emmytexrex · Answer

Trust me it is difficult for some people

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

It's really hard because I get obsessed lol

kaucky1 · Answer

Try keep self busy💫✨✨💢

Gerard567890 · Answer

Just scratch that itch when you need to.

Stu234432 · Answer

Ugh, it's so not easy.

DJB72 · Answer

Ineffectively

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m not sure

noohair · Answer

Learned discipline

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