How do you maintain excitement and desire in a long-term relationship? Do you have any tips for us?
3.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It’s tough because , it comes down to you and your partner wanting to spark up that passion again, meaning you both have to be in it 100 percent , it can’t just be you doing it all and it can’t just be him doing it all , so one of you is going to have to ignite the passion again, if you want the relationship to survive, Plan something spontaneous to make him feel that you really appreciate and love him and are so into him , sometimes relationships get into a funk where you are both pointing fingers at each and blaming each other for stupid things holding resentments against each other , so put all that shit behind you and save your relationship , by taking a step above your partner , dress in sexy lingerie , light candles in your room and surprise him without him knowing , when he comes into the room push him onto the bed and dance like a stripper for him Guys love that shit and most girls have a hard time doing that for their men what girls don’t realize it doesn’t take much for us to be happy , We love when a girl makes us feel wanted and appreciated and that she only has eyes for us , Dominate him. Give him an amazing blow job and then ride him , if he loves you , you are going to make him the happiest guy and I guarantee he will turn around and do something for you without hesitation
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Maintaining excitement and desire in a long-term relationship can be challenging, but it is possible with effort and communication. Here are some tips to help keep the spark alive:
- Communicate: Talk openly and honestly with your partner about your wants, needs, and desires. Express your feelings and listen to your partner's thoughts as well.
- Keep the romance alive: Make time for romantic gestures like date nights, surprise gifts, and love notes. Small gestures can make a big difference in keeping the excitement and desire alive.
- Be spontaneous: Surprise your partner with unexpected adventures, trips, or activities. Trying new things together can create a sense of excitement and adventure.
- Show physical affection: Physical touch is an important aspect of maintaining desire in a long-term relationship. Make sure to hug, kiss, and cuddle with your partner regularly.
- Focus on intimacy: Intimacy is more than just physical, it's also emotional. Make sure to have deep conversations, listen to your partner, and connect on an emotional level.
- Keep things fresh: Mix things up in the bedroom with new positions, lingerie, or sex toys. Experimenting with new things can keep the desire and excitement alive.
- Practice self-care: Taking care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally can help you feel more confident and attractive, which can lead to more desire and excitement in your relationship.
Remember that relationships take work and effort, but with communication, commitment, and a little creativity, you can maintain excitement and desire in a long-term relationship.
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All psychologists say that 50% of the relationship is sexual, and there are even those who say 70%. This is not something you just have to sneak in the room and wait for the evening. You are already together, you are approved by society, you trust each other, you have nothing to be afraid of. I think a relationship needs a bit of curiosity. How would it be like to spontaneously go to a bar and pretend you don't know each other?
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- Anonymous(25-29)1 y
Role playing. I hear a lot of people on here talking about guy preferring porn to sex. So just find out what type of porn he likes, and role play it.
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1.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. The key is to maintain a good balance of responsibility and playfulness. If either side suffers, your partner will likely pull away. Be creative, yet don't overwhelm your partner. Always pay attention to how your choices impact your partner rather than just assume he'll receive it the way you wanted him to receive it. Show concern for how life impacts your partner without becoming his mother. Share the load in all aspects of the relationship. Be an active equal participant in all areas. Show him you value his thoughts and actions. Ask for his help and his thoughts on subjects. Know your partner well. It's not about what people on this site prioritize... it's about what your partner values. Be his best friend and freely show your love.
10 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. The hard truth is many women want their mind read while most guys strive to meet a level of happiness that keeps relationship secure. This is not a jab but, yeah, a reality. We guys suffer much more once emotionally committed if it falls apart. It's the hardest thing ever to detect growth of another intuitively and feed into her felt need or desire. Or even test with activity. Failure in this area can be immobilizing and debilitating.
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Yes get on a treadmill stay on a treadmill.
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If you're talking sexually, it always helps for both of you to stay in shape. Try doing it in public some time. Either in your car or on a hike.
You could also try taking a long break from sex. Coming back to it in a month or two will feel like the first time again.
If you're talking emotionally, I don't know. Go sky diving or some shit00 Reply - 1 y
Yes. I do. You have to communicate with the person. And you have to communicate well enough so that they can actually trust you. And you them. If you're not excited about the relationship, it means you don't believe in it. Because you don't trust them.
00 Reply 10.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes I do you have to talk a lot. If they don’t live that far from you if they live in the same state you can send gift packages through the US mail and rent and watch movies together on the phone and bond and put her to sleep at the end of the night.
00 Reply335 opinions shared on Relationships topic. no matter what some may say, it is mostly about having a lot of things in common and having some good but different hobbies or pastimes, so as there is this being together and having space from each other,,
10 Reply880 opinions shared on Relationships topic. You sometimes need new experiences together. Try new hobbies together or go to new places. Maybe try different outdoor activities together, or join martial arts or learn a type of dancing together.
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It is a lot of work it is all too easy to let things erode into stale and boring
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id certainly hope so, and i. think so cause im in a long term relationship. . and its still very exciting!!!
00 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)1 y
The answer will be different for every couple. Do you know what turns him on, what is deepest fantasies are? Does he know yours? You both need to know and act on them.
00 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Conflict. I keep threatening to kill my wife.
She slashes my tires. God she’s hot….21 Reply7.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. End it and find something local
00 Reply- Anonymous(45 Plus)1 y
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