If you’re in a marriage/long term relationship, how do you keep things exciting?

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Aysen · Accepted Answer

It's very important to continue adding variety within your relationship so it doesn't get stagnant so soon!

Try discussing about topics you two haven't/rarely talk about, especially ones that engage in deep meaningful conversations. Perhaps embrace a new event/activity you two haven't tried together like going to a musical theater or a cooking class with one another. For bedroom activity, try new techniques and explore each other more! These new changes don't have to happen on a daily basis as getting comfortable with a routine with your lover is normal but continuing to find new, innovative ideas helps the relationship to keep growing.

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BLP11520 · Accepted Answer

Truth? We rarely have sex since she screwed her back up. I jerk off and ) I have considered getting a flesh light which may or may not feel like a woman. Sad 😢 but oh well. I wear panties almost every day and she doesn't have a clue

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

Exciting in what way? When things feel dull, we try new things, go new places, and talk to each other about things.

If we feel like we aren’t doing enough together, we will brainstorm ideas of things that we could do that sound fun, whether it be us trying new sexual things, or us trying things we’ve never done, like kayaking — We do it. We like to go to new places too, try new things there. We always talk to each other to give us that “spark” again, it always works, even if we never lose that spark. We like to talk about the future, our plans, our goals, anything new, our thoughts, our feelings, every little thing.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I still flirt with him like as if we’re newly dating, we also go on cute dates at least once a month, we try new things in the bathroom often

Texasgal95 · Answer

Keep fairing and what I mean by that is make time to do things together. I know once you have kids you really have to make time to spend with your spouse / significant other

Danny_dan92 · Answer

If shit got so boring that you’re thinking this way? I don't know what to tell you

kinkyoldman · Answer

We're nudists, I'm a Dom and my wife knows I will have her at any time.

Theungirlygirl · Answer

I think a little spontaneity goes a long way. Like random date nights or spicing up the sex.

Sparkie460 · Answer

What's exciting about marriage?

Anonymous · Answer

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If you’re in a marriage/long term relationship, how do you keep things exciting?

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